Me and my boyfriend are in a steady relationship, and are thinking about having sex in the near future.
I know for a fact i'm 100% ready, but i still worry about it. Im scared of it hurting and this isnt my boyfriends first time and im scared he will think im rubbish at it.
Can anyone help reasure me this isnt the case.
many thanks.
2007-03-03 09:25:11 · 7 answers · asked by apples_and_pears123 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
He won't care if you're bad at it, I mean, even if you just lay there he'll be happy.
2007-03-03 09:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by adklsjfklsdj 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry so much. it will hurt a little when he first tries to penetrate but its not the end of the world. once hes in it starts to feel better, or even good. there may be a tiny bit of blood but not a lot (there was none on my firs time).
and if hes your boyfriend he cares about you. if he is a good person he will not think you are rubbish. if he makes u feel that way, or you are worried about him being judgmental hes not a good bf. hopefully he will be understanding and help u through it.
theres really no way to be bad at it. theres actually more pressure for the guy! for the first time you will probably just be lying there, he will most likely do all the work. with practice and when u get more comfortable u can try different positions and tricks, but dont worry about doing all that for your first time.
2007-03-03 20:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by SweetDarlin' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't be rubbish. Sex isn't everything it's cracked up to be and don't expect it to be like something in the movies. It comes with a lot of consequences, so please take that into consideration (Pregnancy, STDs, especially since it's not his first time.)
If you're scared I don't think you are 100% ready. Please rethink your choices, if you want to allow this to happen. It didn't hurt my first time. And My boyfriend and I both didn't know what we were doing, so as long as youre trying you won't be rubbish! Don't be down on yourself. Tell him to go VERY slowly the first time so it won't hurt as much and make sure there is lubrication.
Use Protection. Be Safe and Good Luck!
2007-03-03 17:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by PPan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very hard for a woman to be bad at sex. Im sure he knows its your first time, so hes not goona judge you. And if your scared, do some research on how to have good sex. Google it and read up on stuff.
2007-03-03 17:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by bigpileofrottencowshit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel pressured to do it.
If he thinks ur rubbish then hes not worth going out with him.
Talk to him about it, be honest ask him to be gentle and understanding for the first few times.
if he doesnt understand this, then you shouldnt have sex with him.
2007-03-03 17:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be uncomfortable the first few times but have your boyfriend go slow. As far as your boy thinking you won't be that great, I guarantee he will be happy just to be touching you, That is how guys are.
2007-03-03 17:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my boyfriend were the same way... its going to hurt.. you cant help that... but just let him to to take it slow the first few times and then you can start doing new positions ans stuff like that
2007-03-03 17:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by Im addicted to the memory of him 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋