i,ve been talking to this guy friend of mine for 3 months now soley on a friendship level and a few nights ago he actually asked me about us being a couple.i was really surprised and a bit taken back by it.could it be that hes desperate? i mean im a good looking woman but the way he came at me with his comment was pretty forward so its making me feel hes desperate or something.what do you guys think?
2007-03-03 09:24:33 · 5 answers · asked by jelisa3120 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think he was desperate. I think he asked that because he wanted you and him to be a couple.
2007-03-03 09:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so whats the matter with him asking you?? YOu have been talking to him for three months now--I am sure that you can tell if he is desperate or not--could it be that you thinking you are an attractive woman he should ot be asking you this--how about being an attractive woman is helping him ask this quetion>>??the issue here is do you think he is a nice person and do you want to be a couple?? this is your decision
2007-03-03 18:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by willtdn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its simple, you feel uncomfortable, you are not ready, so give it sometime, don`t make a decision now, speak to him, tell him how you feel, and before that, clear up your head, and thing what you want too, just friendship or more, see if he is that mr. special for you or not, cause this is a very big step of your life, and the more you take time to make a decision, and the more you are sure yourself about it, the better it`ll be for you.
2007-03-03 17:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no way of knowing if he's desperate or not but what difference does it make? go out with him. what's the worst that could happen? if it doesn't work then you're still friends.
2007-03-03 17:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably had the same intention the whole time yous guys, yous guys was talking...
2007-03-03 17:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by LION 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋