If you annoy them or do something to them that's so small they never forgive you and hate you for life.
Well for me and other people like my family and friends it's easy to forgive.
But why hate a person for misunderstanding you and you apologize to them>?
Why hate a person when you've annoyed them or freaked them out unintentionally and you apologize.
But they still go on hating you even though you stay out of their way and you never speak to them because you know they hate you and still mad at you for something you've already apologized for. Even though it was really small. You didn't steal, you didn't lie, you didn't kill you didn't do any of that morally wrong stuff.
So why is it so hard for others to forgive the little things people do?
2007-03-03 09:11:47 · 6 answers · asked by wildncrazysurvivor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
People who can't forgive little or big things...it is really not about you. It is something within that person that won't allow them to forgive, it can stem from numerous things and or events that have transpired in their life that may not have anything to do with you. What ever it was that you did, forgive yourself for it...then forgive them for not being able to forgive you, and let go. They will then no longer have control over you. People who hold on to things and don't forgive others do this for a reason, it is called control. As long as they don't forgive you and it upsets you they have control of your emotions, don't allow them to continue to have the control....you have done your part, forgive, smile and move on.
2007-03-03 09:19:07 · answer #1 · answered by desperateforanswers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different people, different mind, various ways of thinking, with various thoughts, etc. Everyone can’t be the same. All the 5 figures on our hands are different. It totally depends on how a child has been brought up, its parents, its surroundings, nature of food it eats, etc. Some people are very sensitive, some are hard, some are soft, & some are semi & that is a gift of nature which no one can change nor should try to.
I feel, no one should even try to hurt anyone or anything, stay good, talk sweet & be sweet, try not to be angry on silly reason, apologies if you have done something wrong at the right time, be polite & calm, love everything & everyone, respect all & their feelings, the people we stay with in the surroundings are HUMAN & not Roberts. They have heart, feelings, emotions, etc. So stay good & spread the same.
2007-03-03 09:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jairam K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To the person it was done to it wasn't small.
2007-03-03 09:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
insecurity of themselves is my best answer,the fear of rejection or past life experience makes them this way.
2007-03-03 09:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by fairyros2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they ramble on and on.
2007-03-03 09:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know sorry i geuss it just up to the person! everyone makes their own decisions!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-03 09:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by fsu_kamo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋