I am a 15 year old girl. I play volleyball softball basketball and i have been an ice skater for 12 years. I am involved in a weight training class. I am 138 pounds. I am also 5'8...Most people tell me that i look great and that there is nothing wrong with me but sometimes when i look at myself i feel that i cant compare to those skinny flat chested twigs. But i feel like that is all guys like. Men reading this is that what you want? Those twigs? And i know that i am healthy so that is not a problem.
2007-03-03 09:11:02 · 18 answers · asked by sweet and simple 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
From a medical point of view people are considered fat whenever their BMI ( Body Mass Index) exceeds 30. Yours is below 30 and therefore you are not fat. Guys who are interested in girls just because they are skinny are obviously superficial. Bottomline is that we want a girl with a great personality who shows affection and appreciates our (lame) jokes. It's a sum of several factors of which weight is considered the least important !
2007-03-03 09:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by strauomo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am also very healthy and athletic 5'9 172 lb. Yeah my number is a little higher than yours but I have lots of muscle mass from sports and hiking. My point is if a man likes you JUST BECAUSE OF YOUr LOOKS than you dont need him. It will be worth it to wait for a guy who likes talking to you, likes doing stuff with you, and thinks you are beutiful without even trying. My fiancee is crazy about me and I am not flat chested (size C) Why did you ask if you were fat girl when you know your not!!! I weigh 172 pounds, I think I got meat on my bones but I am definilty not fat so why in the hell would 138 be fat. Quit fussing over what men want cuz they all want something different. Maybe just the ones you like wanted twigs???? Just be yourself and have fun in life and a sweetheart that thinks you are perfect will come along and see your lovely personaltiy and fall head over heels. Good Luck
2007-03-03 09:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by charityislove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you wrote, you are a girl at the age of 15! This weight and size is very good!!! Many women would be jealous. Keep this and stay on with training and you´ll be always in front of many other girls and women. No one, but I just can talk for the guys around me, would like to have a twig.
2007-03-03 09:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by oli st 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys that like the "skinny flat chested twigs" are not guys you want to go out with. They just go out with them/like them because they know that the girls will let them have sex with them, and that's all they're interested in. Guys are really immature in high school. There is one guy in my grade that does drugs, smokes, and drinks and is going out with a skinny flat chested twig and he just uses her for sex and he even got her into drinking, smoking, and drugs. He is a nice looking guy, and he is a nice guy sometimes(when he's sober, which isn't very often) and he could probly have any girl if he was sober. Just try to find the quiet guys, they're usually sober and are good guys.
Wow that was kinda long, sorry.
2007-03-03 09:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by me. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not see any large difference. fat is fat no count number who's fat. i have considered both fat men and women who look no longer ridiculous yet easily disgusting! in case your are a male with a great number of gut....why placed on a good blouse and the have the nerve to tuck in interior your pants??? YUCK! in case you're a fat women people why placed on a blouse so tight people can count number the rolls from miles away??? Its all about the way you carry your self once you're fat.
2016-11-27 19:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by giniebra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy only goes for looks then he isnt the right guy for you. a special guy is somebody who well not judge you by your looks. you are not fat. i have a best friend and her name is anna. she thinks she is fat because she weighs 135 and is 5'9. she always thinks that i get the guys because im really skinny. but it is not true, because there are a lot of guys that go after her she just hasnt found the right one. when girls get older there bodies change and guys will learn that.(they shouldve already learned that) they will learn that there is more to girls than just looks! i hope you learn from my advice. ps. dont give your hopes up!!
2007-03-03 09:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by samantha f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let those anorexic twigs make you feel bad. I am pretty much the same way as you,and i thought no guy would ever like me.But i didn't change.Now i have a great boyfriend who cares about me not about my body.(he does think i'm pretty,inwitch i strongly disagree!)
2007-03-03 09:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by compleatlyinsane=] 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the more you live the more you will find out is that they acctually want the opposite, you are perfect, if you really are what you saY it sounds like you are nice and healthy and fit, guys like a girl that can give them a little play and they wont feel like they will just break you over their knee.
2007-03-03 09:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup but i don't know how much a twig would weigh at that height. im guessing your pretty close to a "twig" just be outgoing and talk to guys im sure one or more will like you
2007-03-03 09:17:00 · answer #9 · answered by theRook1e 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't worry about it,men don't want a toothpick as a girlfriend.
you sound like a pretty cool girl,so continue to exercise and don't try to compare yourself to those skinny girls. They suffer from self esteem that's why they are anorexic.Men want some meat on a girl,it's all about curves.
2007-03-03 09:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by green goblin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋