I wanted to ask all of the guys (or girls) out there if you'd ever date someone who was shorter than you. The reason I asked is because I'm 5'6ft and this guy I like is 6'2ft, he says he thinks I'm cute, but just too short. Would anyone else dis someone because they were shorter than you? My self-esteem has gone down tremendously because of it.
2007-03-03 09:09:42 · 16 answers · asked by LG_89 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It isn't a matter of you not being good enough because you're not tall. It's simply a matter of attraction.
If a woman was attracted to you, you wouldn't be attracted to her, right? Not because there would be anything necessarily wrong with her as a person nor because of her level of attractiveness. It's just not your thing.
You're just not his thing. Doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. Just means you need to look elsewhere for a guy that's going to be hot for you, just as you are.
2007-03-03 09:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think thats totally shallow, who cares if you're short? A lot of guys I know go for the shorter girls, because it makes them feel even more dominating. I think he's just making up some crappy excuse, there MUST be another reason he doesn't want to date you. But you know what? Thats okay, because you don't need a guy like that anyway, you need someone who'll love you for you, and wont care about your height. So forget about him, don't let it get you down girlfriend! Don't EVER let a guy lower yourself esteem! You're too good for that! *huggles you* Cheer up babe! Loves,
~!*Mr. Izzy Fabulous: Diva in Training*!~
2007-03-03 14:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it get to you. I think 5'6" is actually a great height for females. If this guy says you're too short, than he's probably to much of a dweeb. He might have just used that as an excuse for just not being that into you.
I'm 6'1" and most girls I date are much shorter than I am. Just a coincidence I believe.
2007-03-03 09:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by Yea Yea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only place your self esteem needs a hit is for not having had bad taste in men. What a putz this tall guy is! There are plenty of wonderful men that will love your 5'6" self--- his loss.
In 20 years when you run into Mr. 6'2", be sure to ask him how his back is doing. lol
2007-03-03 10:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 5' 2" and have been with men over 6'3" tall. I don't think your height had anything to do with his not wanted to date you. It sounds more like he just isn't into you, perhaps because he's playing around and doesn't want to get into any thing that could turn into a more serious relationship.
Be proud of who you are no matter what your height.
2007-03-03 09:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by Nepetarias 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this guy is kinda weird. Most guys prefer to have a girlfriend who is shorter than them. You are pretty tall for a female. He is a very tall person though and possibly just prefers taller women. Dont let it get you down!!
2007-03-03 09:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jebarj90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 5'6" and never known a hetro male that had a problem with it in the least.
Work on that self-esteem though. Learn to celebrate exactly who you are 24/7!
2007-03-03 09:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by American Spirit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it personally. Besides if a guy is that picky, who knows what else he would be picky about if you actually got into a replationship with him (breaks up with you because you have uneven ear lobes or something stupid)
I'm 5'1", and I've occassionally come accross a guy that thought I was too short. But that just showed that they were too superficial for my tastes.
2007-03-03 09:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by MeekaBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well Tom Cruise is 5'7" and Nicole Kidman is 5'11"
they were married for almost ten years(that's a long time in hollywood years)
Height really isn't an issue for me since I'm only 5'3" and most guys are taller then I am(even Seth Green), so unless I was going out with a dwarf or midget well......you get the idea.
2007-03-03 10:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You look variety of shallow and materialistic, and intensely bitter. Did it ever take place to you that in simple terms possibly that female that could look much less appealing and frumpy to you is a 10 interior the guy's eyes? no longer all adult men are shallow. the different subject is, you could properly be searching for that distinctive somebody, while the certainty is, while the suitable guy seems, he is going to strategies-set you and you will realize it on condition which you permit bypass of the outward appearances. He may be breathtakingly dazzling, or he could in simple terms be standard, yet you will no longer understand while you're settling for in simple terms a "form". there's a asserting that there is somebody for each individual. each and every each and every now and then there are human beings together which you will fairly say, "Ew!" thinking what the heck does he see in her or vice versa. There are forces previous this universe that are able to inflicting 2 human beings to be very plenty attracted to a minimum of one yet another as a results of fact of their chemistry, their connection. it is not consistently approximately intercourse. nevertheless attraction and intensity and compatibility could make that wonderful. as quickly as you get off of your shallow intense horse and take a protracted solid look at your inner self, you will attraction to somebody who will make your coronary heart sing. somebody who's worth of your coronary heart and vice versa. He could supplement you in techniques which you never imagined. you could desire to settle on what you fairly choose previous the obtrusive, outward elegance, or inner elegance.
2016-10-02 08:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by grimon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋