I'm mostly the shy type so when I was ready to tell my boyfriend that I loved him I wrote a note by anonyomous. It didn't take that long to figure out 'cause my friend told him. Then one day he told me that he wasn't sure if he loved me. I'm not sure what to do?
2007-03-03 08:58:57 · 20 answers · asked by resse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you love him give him sometime maybe he's just scared. If you wanna move on then move on.
2007-03-03 09:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by MrS.WilSoN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey..
Not trying to sound philosophical, but yes, u love him. Be happy with that, its as simple as that.
What matters in love is that the other person is happy. Its never wrong to love someone, so just do whole heartedly. Love with all your heart, show it to him, and right now, he is just confused, maybe a lot is going on in his life, and he needs some time to figure stuff out, give him room, support him, show him llove, at times he needs it the most, and most important.
Love is not just about yourself, and not just about a reply or an answer, love true, and one day he`ll be with you, and till then, smile, cause u`ll be doing somethin to make your love smile.
2007-03-03 09:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, i hope you've understood already that there is no love around ... You have 2 ways: first continue the relationship and wait for the love back.... And the second - to dump him. I'm not sure how strong are your feelings.. if its too deep you should keep waiting for the real , joint love!
2007-03-03 10:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds emotionally risky and is going through lots as we talk, besides the undeniable fact that that is clearly no longer healthful for you. you want to face up for your self. tell him it truly is unacceptable to be wishy washy about his love. you'd be there for him, yet you is only no longer mistreated and unloved. regardless of the truth that if he is going through lots, that would not advise he's authorized to tug you alongside on an emotional roller coaster. as we talk's even as he could be grateful on your love, no longer pushing you away. i could be careful about entering right into a courting with someone that tells you faster or later he loves you and the subsequent day he would not. someone that does that is clearly no longer questioning about you and your thoughts. you are able to favor to again off and substances him area to address his project, even as no longer being dragged through a lot soreness.
2016-12-05 04:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by lesniewski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not want to disappoint you by telling you that he does not love you. No amount of loving can change him if he does not love you. The best way is to withdraw from him and get on with your life. If that does draw him in fear of loosing you, then close that chapter, hard as it might be, and move on.
2007-03-03 09:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by Life Dynamics 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't freak !! He may just not be ready to think about your relationship that way.Guys take time so just give him a little.
2007-03-03 09:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay that you love him and hes not sure yet. its just because in general girls are more mature than guys. just keep working on your relationship together. let him really get to know you. and then he will decide if he loves you.
2007-03-03 09:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not sure, do not push him and do not go into a tail-spin. Also, just be yourself ....don't try changing yourself and doing things you don't feel comfortable with. Give him space...I hate this BUT....guys need space.
2007-03-03 09:04:49 · answer #8 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you love someone you need to show ur love to hjim if he is not sure just give him some time and freedom and if he is made for you he will definitely come to u have faith in yourself and on god
2007-03-03 09:26:21 · answer #9 · answered by vish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
itz ok dnt wry about it. luv iz a strong word. u may mean it but hez obviously not ready. wutevr u do dnt break up with him. itz better if he doesnt say it unless he really means it
2007-03-03 09:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋