im twenty years old and i have a child that is 2 months old. my babies daddy asked me to marry him and i don't know what to say being that i still think of my ex and still miss him and i still dream of my ex.
my babies daddy is sweet but crazy he has adhd and he gets out of had sometimes and drives me up the wall. when i need help all he does is play video games or give me a big sigh like i am asking for something so wrong.
i don't know what to do.
2007-03-03 08:37:28 · 15 answers · asked by firedragon122003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It seems as if you answered your own question, he DOESN'T help you out and he's GETS OUT OF HAND SOMETIMES and DRIVES YOU OFF THE WALL. You do the math. He isn't the man for you right now I mean unless he's willing to change. Just because he is your baby daddy doesn't mean you have to marry him. You're still in love with someone else. You ever thought about getting back with your ex instead? GOOD LUCK
2007-03-03 08:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by MrS.WilSoN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are still thinking of your ex fondly then NO you should absolutely not get married. You shouldn't even be with your babies Daddy if you're still thinking of another man. You are only 20 years old and still have a long way to go before you completely mature, and please don't get offended by this, but I mean this sincerely. My daughter is only 25 and on her second marriage and I think that people should take marriage way more serious or not do it at all before they go bringing kids into the world. Think about whats best for your future and not what you think you want today!
2007-03-03 16:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give the poor child (that has two irresponsible children for parents) up for adoption and close your legs for awhile.
You have a two month old baby and all you yak about is who make you wet. Does the babies daddy WORK if he does who the F cares if he plays video games, you be lucky anyone would want you if they knew your true feeling.
2007-03-03 17:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have been thinking of your babies daddy when you were making the baby. Do a mental exercise: think of who you are now, who do you want to be in 5 years, 10 yrs and 15 yrs. Does this picture include your child and another person? If you want another person in the life then you can make it happen. It's up to you.
2007-03-03 16:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by folklore 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like your a match made in heaven. I dont think ppl should get marreid for the baby if its gonna mean an unstable envirotnment and fighting all the time.
2007-03-03 16:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When some one asks you to marry them....if you should the answer should come spilling out. If a question comes out then your answer should be no...at least for now. Honestly.....if you have to ask whether you "should get married", I would have to say you answer should be no!
It is ok to say no.
2007-03-03 16:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out. Don't tell the "daddy" yes or no. This something you really have to decide for yourself.
2007-03-03 16:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not something we can answer sweety but i can say this...your first reaction is usually the correct one. If you have doubts, then maybe you shouldnt'. Honestly its a piece of paper...try to live together first
2007-03-03 16:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by myownsecretarydotcom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely Not. No No No.
he's not ready for commitment and you do not love him. wait until you find Mr Wright. I asure you he is out there.
2007-03-03 16:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by Lolipop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in a hurry. Love will pass the test of time!
2007-03-03 16:41:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mz Toy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋