some one help?

Question

somebody give me a reason to try, please. im a sophomore in high schoo, and basically, i can't do anything right. im not pretty, im not skinny (not uber fat tho), my grades are terrible, and even though im not a mean person, all my friends seemed to have deserted me, for no reason, and it happened overnight basically, my entire grade went on a retreat and i stayed behind with only a few other kids and they came back and forgot about me. i want to go to college and get a good job and have a family, but i feel like thats never gonna happen for me. :( help

Answer 1

You seem to be very hard on yourself and at your age its always hard to fit in ,even the kids that fit in find it hard ! As hard as it is just stay being yourself don't change for any ones approval and then you don't have to keep doing it day in day out ... most of all talk to your parents get help with your grades and forget about fitting in !! I know its hard but it seems like forever but high school goes fast !!! just look at yourself in the mirror and learn to love what you see cause that is the person you are !!! And screw people that think any less then that they aren't worth knowing anyway !!!!!

Answer 2

well first of all it starts with how u see your self. And they didn't just desert u for no reason, stop feeling sorry for yourself! Go out and run! Study! keep yourself busy!

Answer 3

Get off your butt and do something! Maybe you should initiate hooking up with them! Or did some stupid rumor go around about you that this suddenly changed overnight?

Answer 4

work out, lose weight, screw your friends, learn to be by yourself,
people are going to come and go througout your whole entire life.
stop feeling sorry for yourself. throw on some lipstick and tell yourself that you are pretty and you will be. if you dont love yourself no one will. be strong