I know this sounds really pathetic.. and you'll be like.. lord what is she 11 (I'm not just so you know).. but anyways here goes..
one of My Best Friends (girl) is datin one of my other best friends(guy)! so The guy best friend and me is really really close! and so he tells me he loves me all the time and I tell him I love him back! (friendly love) and there for a while i didnt think nothin of it but lately he's been rubbin up on me, huggin me, holdin me real close, and he's even kissed me a couple times! I really like this boy, and did before he started datin my best friend, but now I dont know what to do, cuz only me and him know about it! and I feel bad for it even tho I didnt do nuthin, but I didnt stop anything either! so If you can help me and tell me what to do! cuz I dont know whether to get mad at him, or tell my friend whats goin on, or just let it continue and be friends with benifits and dont let anyone know! ok.. just please help
thanks bunches =)
2007-03-03 08:30:46 · 11 answers · asked by 9*I ♥ Kasey Kahne*9 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
I think you should talk to your best friends separately. Tell the girl what's going on because she might get hurt even more if she finds out later. And then talk w/ the boy and tell him how YOU feel and that he should talk w/ his gf.
2007-03-03 08:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by foreverme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound pathetic at all. This kind of thing happens more frequently than you might guess.
Ok, here's the thing:
Your guy sounds like a bit of a jerk. He KNOWS she's your best friend and yet he's coming on to you.
I think you'll feel better about yourself if you say to him, "You know I love ya. And you know I love her. I don't want to be in the middle anymore. If the two of you decide you don't want to see each other anymore, and if there is still a 'spark' between us, then we can talk about it. But, until then, let's keep things between us just friends. If we can't do that, then I think we should cool it for a while and not see each other as much."
Right now, the guy's getting the best of both worlds. And imagine how hurt your girlfriend would be if she found out.
Stay classy. Take the high road and the right thing will happen.
2007-03-03 16:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind that they are both your friend. Talk to your girl and let her know what's happening then go directly to your guy and let him know what you are thinking and then gently get you three together (not letting either of them know why or even that you talked to the other person) and see how he acts around both of you to see if he's trying to get two girls. Think about which friend is most important to you. Which one would you want to live with? If you like the guy as a friend (only friend) best then go with him. If you really care about your girl though, then stop all the touchy-touchy crap with the guy. You can't have everything and all. Good luck. I hope you figure it out.
2007-03-03 16:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awe honey It's life... but personally i think 11 is to young for touching...you are just getting to know you...Please talk to your Mom,or an Aunt, even a Grandma...someone whom LOVES you..Please go talk to your family....They can help you the best b/c they know and UNCONDITIONALLY love you and want what is best for you
2007-03-03 16:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by cynshar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop that as long as hes going out with your friend, because if she finds out then youre gonna loose a good friend just over a guy. just remember: chicks before *****! hope i helped :D
2007-03-03 16:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alrite first of all do you rlly like this guy?? and wat seems more important to u, your friendship with you girl best friend, or a relationship w/your guy best friend. first of all if i was you then i would tell my girl best friend wuts going on, and he's pretty much cheating on her if he's kissing you, but a question of how good of a friend you are to her is are you kissing him back?? and if not then y would you let him kiss you?? tell your friend wuts going on!!!! she deserves to know.
2007-03-03 16:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by Xx-hco-chick-xX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay the same thing happened to me when i was 12(14 now!) well i went out with him. I explained to my friend how i felt and she was okay with it. we ended up dating on and off and then we were through she went out with him again. plus now we are even closer!
2007-03-03 16:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by =] taylor <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits is not a bad thing.
2007-03-03 16:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by James V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit being a brat and tell the guy to just shove it up his ***
by the way learn to speak english
2007-03-03 16:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by Beckyy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your friend or just do the smae thing back to him
2007-03-03 16:34:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋