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i have the worst rep. at my school
im the "school slut" because i had 7 bfs in like 6 months...im in middle school.
nobody understands im just a girl looking for the right guy!!!...someone told me i cant stay with a guy for more than 3 weekz but cant live without a bf...i want to change my rep. and dont know how!!! i dont like being with someone i dont like.
i like them one day then a few days later i dont like them anymore...
my best friend adrain said im gorgues and made feel good by telling me that other people were just jealose because im prettyer and nicer than them
well i fell for him and ruind our friendship by goingout with him now he wont talk to me...
i dont like people seeing me sad or mad so i turn my sadness or anger in to "hyper-ness"
i might start crying and threaten to cut myself if i dont get better
im not emo but i dont know i need attention when im trying to forget everything...help...

2007-03-03 08:27:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

not sleeping w/ them by the way!

2007-03-04 13:58:05 · update #1

3 answers

I am WAY older than you so you probably won't think my advice is cool, but here goes....sounds like you have low self esteem. Wht do you NEED a boyfriend?

Just date and have fun but keep it CASUAL. Don't get too involved with any guys until your SURE about the WHOLE situation!

Take it slow and let the right boy come to you, then GRAB him. Other girls are probably jealous of you but they'll treat you bad and make you seem easy so watch your back girlfriend!

2007-03-03 10:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by William's Mum 2 · 0 0

are u sleeping with these guys if u are then stop because ur too young to be going so fast ,u don't have to be in a rush to find a guy take things slow , as for ur rep maybe if u don't go out for no one for a little while people will stop saying stuff about u , u should start talking to a school counselor , about ur feelings and don't cut cause thats just gonna make things worse talk to someone

2007-03-03 18:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You're a little too young to find the love of your life right now. Just enjoy your adolescence. Talk to your parents and surround yourself with good friends.

2007-03-07 14:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by Cynical 3 · 0 0

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