we have 3 young boys ages 1,2,3 and ive been in iraq for thae last 5 months and in a couple weeks im going home for 2 wks then coming right back, i dont want to leave my boys at all and i want to do somthing romantic for my wife but i cant really come up with anything good enough for my princess who deserves the world so im just hoping for some feedback on question.
2007-03-03 07:58:42 · 13 answers · asked by u.s army 04-08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You could keep the boys for a day (i'm sure although she wants to see you very much, so could use a little break) and send her to a spa to spoil herself..........then, once you get the boys in bed that evening, have a romantic dinner ready for her!
Thanks for your service in Iraq....you have given up alot for our freedom, and it doesn't go unappreciated!
2007-03-03 08:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by citygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Light the fire.....
Give her a reason to want you to hurry home and to be true to you..
Make her feel so special the entire time you are with her. Help with the kids. Give her time away from them. Give her money and have her get a spa pedicure and a manicure. Let her go shopping and the whole time she is gone spend floor time with the kids depending on the age, but board games, legos or wrestling. Just intimate one on one daddy loves you time. Make sure you have at least one date and make it an exciting one. Preferably after she goes shopping and gets her nails done. Tell her your plan she can meet you at a club, a diner whatever and you pick up on her all over again. It can be innocent attraction, animal lust.. whatever she is needing. Let her drive on this one. Before you leave the house put a trail of candy kisses all the way to the bedroom and candles all over the house. Put a note under the mat and have it read, "let me kiss the floor you walk on" Run in the house and light the candles and then go out and walk her in. Hand her flowers and the note.
there is nothing more exciting then reliving the moment of meeting each other over and over--role playing--your a truck driver passing through town etc.. but it is always you just you as a cowboy or a marine whatever is fun. Make it special, exciting--show her if you had the choice you would choose her all over again! and give her the chance to choose you! Hold off the moment of intimacy to the very end.
2007-03-03 08:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww...aren't you so sweet. I would suggest maybe to just find a baby sitter for one day into evening. I would send her out on an afternoon of relaxing spa treatments, nice massage, pedicure, manicure, hair...oh lets say the works almost. During the time that she is gone. You go and get Roses....lots of roses, and fill the bedroom with them as well as candles. Head to one of your favorite resturants and see if they will provide a wonderful take out meal that you can just plate up when you get home. have roses and candles every where....and if it is possible rose petals scattered everywhere. I think it is wonderful that you want to be with your boys, but 24 hours without them will be all right...I know that you and your wife woudl love some time alone together. Just make sure that she is taking he little pill.
Have a wonderful time....your wife is very lucky.....and I thank you for doing what you do for our country.
2007-03-03 08:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this boat, many, many times! The best thing you can do to show you really care about her and her feelings, is to let her take a day to herself, with no kids! Have her go get a massage, get her hair and nails done, you stay home with the kids and have the house clean when she gets home. Then, plan for a baby sitter and take her out on the town!
2007-03-03 08:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you don't want to leave your children try this: After all of the choas dies down from you being back tell her that you want to put the kisd to bed you know tuck them in.. whiles she takes a long hot bath alone (without kids) then after the babies are sleeping go and take a bath with her talk and rub each other, like you would if you had all the time in the world.
2007-03-03 14:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by myvote01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start with god bless you, My wife and I drove from Missouri to Fort Hood Texas, to surprise our friends for valentines day as Jim ws going to be deployed, We went there so we could watch the kids so he could take her out for valentines, they didn't know we were coming, They were surprised and Jim would sent letters back thanking us.
As I told my son inlaw, a bubble head. I'll give the same advise
The first day back enjoy your family, You have access to the Internet or maybe someones wife on your base to help.Find a sitter for the kids, all night. maybe a buddy who you can return the favor too. Make breakfast for her and the kids. Give her a gift cert. for a day spa including hair and makeup. just b/4 she gets home have the kids dropped off. make sure their packed for the stay, Send her flowers to the day spa. If you know her sizes buy her a nice outfit . When she comes home, be in your dress blues give her her next gift wrapped clothes, and pray she has shoes to match. Have your sweets and wines, etc. in the house b/4 she gets home. Have her get dressed, and take her to a very nice restaurant. Maybe a piece of jewelry to give her at the restaurant.
The rest I'm sure you can figure out.
Hope this helps holler if you need me
2007-03-03 08:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could get a baby sitter for one night and take her out for a romantic dinner place. Then maybe you could take a walk in the park. When yall got home you could give her a massage and get into the jaccuzi together, the rest will take care of itself if you know what I mean.
2007-03-03 08:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by dmonster61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were your wife, I would just be glad that you were home and safe. I love when my hubby comes home and just has fun playing with our children. Maybe just some quiet time together would be great for you guys. Have a sitter watch the kids and just do whatever you used to do when you were dating.
2007-03-03 08:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by Becca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no straight forward way out of this. in case you're questioning breaking up with him, you likely will finally. in case you're certain that you do not love him, then it will be better to break it off now. he is going via a demanding bit already, so it would properly be demanding on him. even though it isn't solid to provide him a pretend impact about your relationship. My female friend dumped me even as i become in Europe; it become only for a 2 week excursion, yet i'm happy she despatched me the e-mail telling me that we were via. it would were worse if I had come decrease back homestead and then get dumped (fairly considering she become living with yet another guy via then). that is a foul problem, yet to stay in a loveless relationship is worse for him and also you. merely enable him do not straight forward and examine out no longer to be spiteful.
2016-11-27 19:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you for your service. Can you get a baby sitter? If so and you can afford it rent a room with a jaccuzi. Get necked. A few contrasting rose petals on the bed should do it. And a happy meal.
2007-03-03 08:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by dtwladyhawk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋