Do guys honestly like when girls play hard to get?
like for example if a guy never calls you and you call him all the time does that just annoy them to the extreame and if the girl stops and plays hard to get would he like it
2007-03-03 07:49:27 · 22 answers · asked by brittany K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I used to wonder this, too, and have discovered something that has helped tremendously in my dating life.
Don't play hard to get, or they may lose interest.
Don't call them all the time, either, or they will get annoyed.
So what's left to do?
When you are around them, treat them as friends, but have an "I can take you or leave you" attitude. It's true, most guys like a challenge! If you show them interest, but keep yourself at a slight distance at the same time, they will like you even more.
So hang out with him, but sometimes, just leave him alone and let him come to you!
I hope this advice helps you as much as it has helped me. Good luck : )
2007-03-03 07:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by Alice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy and his level of maturity! Some more immature guys might like playing little games, but most men want their women for who they are--being open and honest, NO GAMES! Some guys will get annoyed though, from the incessant phone calls, so don't call unless there is good reason!
2007-03-03 15:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by citygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he never calls you, that could be a sign. But from a male's point of view, it's great for our ego that you keep calling. As for playing hard to get, that depends on the degree you are playing. If you are are ignoring him, he may give up and you are without him wanting you, but as long as you at least show him some attention without giving it up (at least not right away!), you will earn a little much deserved respect from him.
2007-03-03 15:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by Alex W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're speaking of two extremes, playing hard to get or being in their face all of the time. Guys don't usually like extreme behaviour on the part of girls, plus they tend not to like girls who play mind games with them.
2007-03-03 15:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't like mind games, just get to the point and he'll be happy. And yes, most guys don't like to be called all the time.
2007-03-03 15:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by Moral Orel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls should play alittle hard to get otherwise the guy get un-interested because they already know that you like them so they dont have to show their true feelings for you..... girls should NEvER call guys...... that shows desperation in my view..... if you play hard to get then you wont end up getting played......
2007-03-03 15:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by skibabie12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, everyone likes when people play hard to get- but of course you have to give in some of the time or it's not a game, if you never gave in he would become un-interested
2007-03-03 15:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay well dont stop calling him all together but dont drown him with extra calls...a random 2 or 3 calls a day can make it happen.just play along if he doesnt call you...one of you will cave in soon or later!
2007-03-03 15:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by Malayia C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy has the upper hand, he knows it. So, take the upper hand. You have to see it as though you're doing him a favor, not the other way around. Trust me, i'm a guy.
2007-03-03 15:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know any one that likes some one that PLAYS games, with their feelings
2007-03-03 15:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋