2007-03-03 07:44:39 · 6 answers · asked by Heidi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The first thing you need to know is that you are strong and can do just about anything. I had a hard time when I was younger and my husband was first deployed A LOT of the time. I finally realized that I couldn't stop living just because he was gone. I got a baby sitter and went out with my friends. I even made a driving trip from Tacoma to Florida with 3 small kids and a dog.
Lets be honest here. Even though you love your husband more than any one else in the world, and you miss him so much, it is nice to have a break. One less person to clean up after.
On a serious note. DON'T watch the news every day. It will just drive you crazy. Get out of the house and do things. Good luck to you.
2007-03-03 08:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend had a deployed spouse and she found several groups on-line for her situation. I believe it was mostly wives - you didn't indicate whether you are male or female. She really found a lot of support through them. She also found an actual group in her area. I highly recommend connecting with one of these groups - they truly can empathize and understand what you are going through like no one else can. Good luck - I hope they get to come home soon.
2007-03-03 07:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by anyareed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest first you look at some books telling of fisherman's wife's. Then find a group of your peers. Do not make a mistake?
2007-03-03 07:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job, stay busy, most of all, don't play helpless like you can't do anything for yourself, and don't CHEAT
2007-03-03 07:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by sonya h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't have a good answer, but if your talking about yourself, then i am sorry to hear you are lonely.
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2007-03-03 07:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait on him and be faithful
2007-03-03 07:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by rocky w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋