im a guy and i think im bii but idk what to do
2007-03-03 07:37:15 · 17 answers · asked by nba4life 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
hell no.....its hot!...im bi and i think of it this way....i get the best of both worlds!
2007-03-03 07:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there really is any reason to really define sexuality. I have this theory that everyone is at least a little bit bi... but idk. In fact, more of my guy friends have admitted they think they are bi than female, even though females are considered 'hotter' as being bi. I don't think anything is wrong with being bi. As a biologist, I haven't really been able to understand why. Hundreds of animals exhibit bisexual behavior. Thats nature for you. In the end I like being with both men and women so I'll just do whatever I please. idk how old you are but if you are in HS, if you go to college a lot of people become a lot more open and exploratory to the idea so it is often a safer place to further look into this. If you go to a liberal school. Good luck!
2007-03-03 17:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by bippidibopiddi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you're bi, maybe you're not. What's the big deal? Don't sweat it.
Meanwhile, go to the library and read up on gay relationships. Yes, some backward families and communities have been horrible, the way they've treated bi and gay guys. But really, that's ancient history. If your family and community are truly down on bi's, well, you may have to decide whether you want to be part of that obsolete world.
2007-03-03 16:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by will_o_the_west 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're lucky! You get to enjoy the best of both worlds
Anyone who tells you that being bi is wrong, or is only a mask for being gay, has a personal agenda. Pay no attention to them.
2007-03-03 15:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
People are who they are. If you are comfortable with being bi- that's ok. If you're not, you need to talk to someone about it. Finding your identity isn't always easy. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-03-03 15:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
no there is nothing wrong with being bi sexual. it just means you crave the pleasure both sexes have to offer.
2007-03-03 15:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by Marg N 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is nothing wrong with being Bi; BUT you must make a decision of what and who you want to share your life with. Be faithful to yourself to please others, do not lie to your partners.
...and don't forget to enjoy yourself.
2007-03-03 15:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by grumpyfiend 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No. Nothin wrong with keep your options open. Just don't forget what monogamy means.
2007-03-03 15:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by Syck 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
its not wrong.
it's in-born and its not a fault.
its just that some people have a more feminine side to them.
i've friends who are bi/gay/lesbian and they're all really cool people.
be proud of who you are!
dont let others get to you!!
2007-03-03 15:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by x.rain.x 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Take a chance, and find out. Go slow, and don't do anything you don't want to. But most of all play safe...Have fun & take care...Jim
2007-03-03 16:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by lakecountry40 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋