i've been a member of our group that we officially called boysfriendship. we are are straight males here there's about 7 of us. i'm actually a new member here because i came here in canada just last sem. some of my classmates were bullying me because i don't speak and understand english well. so they called me to join their group and so i did. we had already did our gimmick to have gimmi9ck sex in the gym but don't have actual sex we just ask were having fun inside the sauna and washroom.! after i was shocked when one of my same age man confronted me, he's actualy my role model because his so professional the way he acts, his soft spoken, neat and clean wear clothes like professional. and i realy like him as my role model he indeed behave like areal man. i was just a bit upset when he told the group he wanna go gay nhow that he had already find me. he'll nevr be happy with others only me. and because were too close to each other i reacted as in nothing but i'm culturally shocked!
2007-03-03 07:13:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
If you aren't sexually attracted to him, then what I'd do is BE HONEST with him and tell him how flattered you are, how he's your role model, but also how you're not into having gay sex with him. He'll appreciate your honesty.
2007-03-03 07:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by barrych209 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, I think you knew this when you gave the group the name (Boysfriendship)? If your not attracted to him, or your not sure about yourself, maybe you like girls and guys.
He has made his feelings for you known, now do you want to go out with him? Do you want to be just friends? Do you want to leave the group?
Be honest with yourself and everyone else, and you'll do just fine.
Good Luck
2007-03-03 09:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by mevanr8x7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me the name of the group is a gay group.
Me I would get out of there, but your choice
2007-03-03 08:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
have sex with him in the washroom n' sauna sounds like u halfway there anyways
2007-03-03 08:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by maddyhill 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like him go for it. if you only like him for a role model, then turn him down, he needs to accept he cant always change other people to get what he wants.
2007-03-03 14:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yelp watch out for those guys in the sauna, you might get a steam n cream.
2007-03-03 08:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by Goldfish 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave the group!!!
Tell him you don't feel the same way about him!!
2007-03-03 08:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mina D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you aren't sexually attracted to him, then it would never work.
2007-03-03 07:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by Erika Karolina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!
2007-03-03 07:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋