most women want to dominate their husbands?

Question

they want that the husband should neglect his parents,
and in contrast every woman wants that her parents should be respected by their husbands.
is it fair,,
isn't it a moral responsibility of a woman to respect her husband's parents and take care of them?

Answer 1

I personaly love my in-laws but, when a man gets married he is no longer obligated to any one other than his WIFE.Natuarlly you wont disown your folks, because they are the reason you even exist. Your wife doesn't have to take care of them however she does need to have respect for them.

Answer 2

Domination of husbands by their spouse - yes, it plays to the passive/aggressive men very well, but eventually the consequences appear when the women realize that they are doing all the work. Then there is much hostility on both sides.

Her parents / his parents: it is typical that the grandchildren will be at the parents of the mother more than at the parents of the father.

Respect for the woman's parents or man's parents: it depends on whether the woman or the man (or both) have matured sufficiently to tell their own parents NO and relate to their parents as adult-to-adult rather than child-to-adult.

Moral responsibility - depends on whose morals are used. Some cultures have the youngest children caring for their parents when the parents are no longer able to be independent, so I cannot say what the woman OUGHT to do.

Answer 3

You obviously haven't met any good women. No women I know dominate their husbands, or treat their men or their men's parents that way. On the other hand, no women I know would tolerate your ridiculous notion that a woman's moral responsibility is to take care of her husband's parents. Mutual respect is the basis of any good relationship - but it doesn't sound like your women have respect for you, nor you for them.

Answer 4

Well you sound a little Neanderthal in your outlook.
I have found most woman attempt to control their husbands and change them

Every woman will use sex as a weapon at some point to control men or to get their man to do things they do not want to do.
Most woman think nothing of manipulation, leading guys on to get men to buy things for them, or using the guy in other ways for the woman's benefit.
I think that's why they love to dominate guys or being dominatrix's, it just comes natural to most females.
Personally I think it's great as I love Alpha women

Answer 5

It depends on how much the parents appreciate their daughter in law. You say your wife wants you to neglect your parents and then you say she should take care of them. So whose doing the hard work here?
It is my opinion that parents can make a daughter-in-laws life an absolute misery and a husband's first duty is to his wife. If his parents need help, then he must give it and if she wishes to she will do so out of affection, not only for her husband but for her in laws.
Do you listen to your wife's complaints? I've been shocked and stunned by the nastiness of my in-laws. Respect must be earned.

Answer 6

If your wife controls you it is because you allow her to do it. People treat you the way you allow them to. You have to have a back bone and that doesn't mean that you will start trouble doing this. Actually, she will probably have a lot more respect for you if you just say no sometimes. I would never respect a man that I could just walk all over but on the other hand I wouldn't respect a man that was a control freak either.

Answer 7

Wives and husbands, should work together at make it work and should each respect each other. It is a moral responsibility for each of the persons to have the same respect for each other parents.

Answer 8

Yes its every man and womens duty to respect each other parents, but now in 2006, everybody should have a happy life think about it your parents have had there life. know its your turn, life is short nad you married this lady to be your wife for life, so its your job as a man to treat her like she is everything in your world because after all she will be the one who will be around when you are sick etc. that is a error that most men make and end up divorced. so save your marrige, marrige is not a game. in laws love to cause dramer for there daughter in laws, you do know that deep down in your heart, so its your job to stop the dramer and trust me its not all your wife. she just wants a life like everyone on this earth and she should get it with you or without you so wake up it not her fault she wants to be pamperd and loved, and you being her husband should treat her like she is your life. you will not get another chance in this life time.

Answer 9

In some cases women want to dominate, in some cases men want to dominate, in some cases both want to dominate, while in most of the other cases both co-operate. I've seen more couples of the fourth kind. Making generizaltions based on a handful of experiences is wrong...

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Answer 10

call me old fashioned but i think a girl should always respect her inlaws and the guy should do the same. i think girls should think of their inlaws as their parents. for me when i get married i want to stay in the guys family and respect everyone. yes it is women's responsibility to care and respect for the guys parents but nowadays guys don't even care about their parents.