I live in a dormitory and the dorm I live in is co-ed but the promblem is that there is three girls to a room. But now I have one roommate because the other one left. My promblem is that my other roommate does not like to clean her half of the room when my other roommate was here it would be just me and her cleaning up the room while the other is messing it up. On the weekends it is worsier because there is no school and that's when she starts throwing clothes and her stuff everywhere and letting everyone into our room. I am a person who do not like too many people in my room especially if it's dirty and I'm trying to clean it up. The other promblem is that she has a habit of leaving the door wide open even while I'm changing my clothes or the room is dirty. What should I do?
2007-03-03 06:08:02 · 5 answers · asked by jamaicaladydread 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She washes her clothes, and takes a bath but when it comes down to the room.
2007-03-03 06:09:06 · update #1
Being a clean person does not mean that you necessarily have to be an ordered one! Try to talk to her and tell her what you think about the mess she's making, and try to explain that, in a society, she is not allowed to be messy... Another solution would be to hide her things, the things she loves the most, and when she asks you where are they, you tell her: "Hey, it's not my fault that you lose your things trowing everything around!"
2007-03-03 06:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by boy_out_of_hell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an identical issue i became having. My roommates in no way wanted to take any responsibility even they were so marvelous that i could no longer even imagine of leaving them. First few days i had skipped over the family members works, yet then i concept what if i have been on my own contained in the flat, if so I particularly could do each and each of the problem and also if i regulate the roommate i will not have a good time with my existence the way i'm doing now. So i continued to do the artwork without uttering a note to them. yet after I were given ill, i concept they are going to do it now yet invain. So i have been given up in severe ailment and did each and each of the artwork. They were given demoralized and after that I particularly don't have any complains with them. ability in case your roommate is doing it unintentionaly, quickly she will manage to appreciate it. you only do not say something to her. 2d mind-set you are able to take is opposite to this... only talk over along with your roommate. the way you percentage the roomrent percentage the artwork also. So ball is on your courtroom now.
2016-12-05 04:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and see if you can have a talk to her, tell her that you just want the both of you to get along together. Now write down all of the things that is bothering you, and I do not think that, what you want is unreasonable.
2007-03-03 06:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her. maybe she'll start trying to keep her room clean if she doesn't just don't clean at all maybe she'll get sick of it being so dirty and start cleaning.
2007-03-03 06:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by italian_chiki411 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a girl will tell u better not me..........
2007-03-03 06:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by cuz he will die soon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋