It just seem like these days there are no happyness in my life, my husband is divorcing me and i do not know what to do, i have two wonderful childred they are everthing thing to but these day even though i am trying very hard for all of us to be happy it just seem so hard i cry alot but i dont let them see this.
2007-03-03 06:06:38 · 6 answers · asked by sally 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
True happiness is a feeling of bliss that comes from within the very core of your being. Your soul. I believe that when you are in your purpose that God intended for your life... you will have an overwhelming feeling of satisfaction.. bliss.. happiness.. comfort. It is not something that you look to others to get.
When a baby smiles at you.. watching others talk about their families.. remembering your fathers habit of watching sports every Saturday.. your mom applying make-up when you were younger and you lieing on the bed watching and admiring as a child. These things can bring happiness. Getting that new first time home. Laughing at the ferrets in the pet shop.
You need to know your husband did not complete you as a woman. You may miss his companionship but remember 'what doesn't kill you will make you stronger.' It may have been time for him to go. If you love and care about someone and they can walk out of your life... let them walk. You do not need the problems it would cause to keep him. Love him enough to let him go.
Your children may be your saving grace. They can bring you happiness if you allow them. Do not be afraid to let them know you are hurting down through here. Let them know you loved their father and the separation is not their fault. You all can cry together. They may be in pain to. Would you rather they turn to the streets... or you? Let them see you are a woman with emotions. Don't suppress them. How you feel does not take away from who you are... BELIEVE THAT!
Bring your family together and find a common bond that you all share. A trip to a carnival... feeding ducks in a park and taking goofy pictures... attend church together... make a family night for eating pizza and watching movies (mandatory).
Find your bliss Honeychild! Move on. Let go and let God. Life is hard and it will not get any easier the older you become. Deal with it and be strong. God has better things in store for you than being captive to a lifestyle that is not healthy for you.
Take this as a growing experience and move on.. You are exactly where God wants you.
2007-03-03 06:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry; that sounds like such a painful situation.
My source for these words is a link for a divorce recovery website listed below.
"Please take me seriously when I tell you to see a counselor or a therapist if you are having an unusually hard time dealing with your divorce. You need to talk to someone who is trained to deal with these things - someone who will get to know you and your situation. I can't stress this enough. They can help you.
And if they aren't helping, change therapists or counselors. Sometimes a person can relate to one therapist and not another.
I was so depressed and down that I didn't think that I would ever be happy again ... and I remember the day that I actually was able to laugh with delight. I also remember thinking, "Wow! I laughed and actually felt good." I was in my garden at the time, and that was the beginning of my realizing that I was healing..
Read these pages. Cry when you need to. Let the feelings come up, and learn to accept them. Work on yourself. You have a good life ahead of you to live.
I wish you happiness in the future"
2007-03-03 06:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by littleredms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know going through a divorce is hard, and I know what you are going through, But I pulled through and thousand of other people pulled through to, What you gotta do honey, is write down 20 things that make you happy in General, whether its food or drinks or a subliminal message, everything that makes you happy, And then after you write them down, Think about this, ask yourself this question, how many other people in the world Have what i have, And say a little prayer to the Good Lord and than k him, That you may not have a husband anymore but at least you have life, at least you have things around you that do make you happy, soo smile and be happy
2007-03-03 06:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by trudycaulfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something that is inside everyone. The outside world can only make you happy to a certain extent, true happyness comes from within.
2007-03-03 06:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by I am the Badger Princess. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happiness is peace with God. There is no other true happiness in my opinion. You can do things to make yourself feel better, but its all short lived. Just try God, you can't lose. Watch this video, it will amaze you.
2007-03-03 06:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by cindy h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to my question i asked titled "do you know the secret" i promise you you can find happiness within my theory, religous or non. think positive and positve things WILL COME. it's stated by the scientific LAW of attraction...
2007-03-03 06:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by just me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋