My two friends, when they're together they're so self centered. It gets really anoying! I like them both, its just that they leave everyone out. I want to be friends, but I don't know how to tell them about how they act without hurting them. Its like they don't like me. HELP!!
2007-03-03 05:50:21 · 8 answers · asked by answergrl239 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
have a Heart to heart with them OUTSIDE school. you don't need them gossiping to others about what you said to them as soon as you switch classes. get together with them and say it's serious business. talk to them about how they need to be more considerate and need to realize that they are excluding you, their best friend. tell them how hurt you've been feeling, and that you don't want to be left out anymore, or else you are going to have to lay off off of their friendship for a little while. also, mention that others feel the same way and its not just you. if they don't change after you try to help them and are still self-centered and rude, drop them. they are meant for each other and girls don't need friends who aren't try to them- trust me!
2007-03-03 06:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG i am gong thorugh the same thing,my frineds think its all about them and that noone else atter in th world but seriously ineed breaks from themsometime so i just hang w/ other friends on the weekends b/c seriously why put urself in posittion where u dont feel like u belong half the time?
2007-03-03 13:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by whitney b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them, if they r ur friends then u shouldnt be afraid to talk to them, if they still act self -centered, then move on, get some new friends. GOOD LUCK â¥
2007-03-03 14:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by GuitarChik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if really they don't like you, give your best to speak up the situation you feel like you see-i mean this clique issue. Speak like how you used to speak in your language.
Well maybe, who knows after all, they will like you by any mean =as for telling them the truth you saw.
2007-03-03 13:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by middle of mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them they are self centered
2007-03-03 13:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by No one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try just being around each one seperately...protect yourself
2007-03-03 13:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if they are leaving u out.... they are not true homiez! what kinda homiez leaves her homegurl kickin by herself? WTF? and if u can't see throo dat den...... i don't know wut to tell u!
2007-03-03 14:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by moochi5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe u can just tell them and they might just except wat u say and consider it!
2007-03-03 13:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by sara s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋