i know i love him alot.
but i am still attracted to other men ,especialy my ex .but my ex was a cheater and i fully trust my husband.
I just can't seem to get my ex off my mind.it's been years since i seen him and i just saw a piture of him on my space and he is sooooooo FINE!!!!my ex and i have a bond(we had a miscarriage when we were together) HOW DO I FORGET ABOUT THIS GUY AND KEEP MY MINDON MY HUSBAND?
2007-03-03 05:27:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you remember how Sh**y you felt when you found out your ex was cheating on you. If your husband finds out how you feel about your ex it will devastate him and possibly destroy your marriage. Are you will to sacrifice that?
Your EX-BOY friend IS A F**KING A**HOLE who cheated on you or maybe your just STUPID.
Why is it that women who have a truly decent MAN can think of only the a**holes who have hurt them. A woman like you don't deserve a man like your husband because you will never appreciate him for who he is. He is the one person in your life that will worship your every word and cherish every moment he has with you. And still your thinking of this other guy. You are truly one stupid woman. Do you ever read the questions in this section (Marriage & Divorce)? You have what all these woman want and your thinking of some Jack*** who cheated on you which says your absolutly nothing to him and he don't give a rats a** about you.
I hope you grow up and realize what you have and thank God you have a trully GOOD MAN that will LOVE you for the REST OF YOUR LIFE.
If you have any problem with my answer then all I can do is pray for your husband.
2007-03-04 05:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by SA41TX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lola, what you had with the ex is past. You have a wonderful man in your life and you should thank god for him every day. There are so many women out here that have had the cheating, lying, couch potato husbands/boyfriends who would love to get one like you have in your life right now. Be grateful and appreciative. That photo on my space is an image, the reality of the man is that he was/is a known cheat and it's much like an ex con, the record remains.
2007-03-03 13:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by sunset 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
People like you really p*ss me off. You have a wonderful husband and yet you suffer from "grass is greener" syndrome. If you still had feelings for an ex you shouldn't have gotten married. There is a difference between having "yes, I loved him but we just didn't make it" and "I want my ex, I think I love two men" I love my husband unconditionally because without him my life would be awful. Go to counseling, deal with this before you make a huge mistake AND STOP looking him up on myspace. If your husband busts you, you're gonna fell like a major *ss.
2007-03-03 14:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remind yourself that you are too good to be with a cheater, handsome or not. Count your blessings that you are in a healthy relationship and think about the bonds you have with your husband. Also, you are human. You can be attracted to other men, just do not put yourself in any strange situations. I have a feeling that you enjoy attention... especially from men. If this is true, it is alright. Just know this about yourself and know that you are with a good man. Good Luck!
2007-03-03 13:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by lidijathebeautiful 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Quit looking him up on myspace! Remember what attracted you to your husband and why your ex is your ex. Your husband is a good man and I hope you will realize that he's the best thing that happened to you and your ex is a piece of crap. I guess you need to start thinking positively about your husband and negatively about your ex to get past this. Only my suggestion, but it helped me. You have kids. Time to quit looking and start taking care of your family instead of looking up past exes.
2007-03-03 13:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Lola, the only way is to write a gratitude list every time the picture or thought of your ex enters your mind. And pray.
Your job is SELF DISCIPLINE, and that is tough. So replace each thought/idea of the ex with gratitude for the present man. He is too good to loose to rubbish thinking on your part.
2007-03-03 13:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by thisbrit 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
every time you THINK about your ex do something nice for your husband. Get him a card,write him a note, bring him coffee whatever. Remind yourself why you are no longer with your ex and reinforce the bonds you have with your husband. If your husband is all you say then he deserves your respect,gratitude and loyalty.
2007-03-03 13:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by pnut 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
omg!!!! i am in the EXACT situation!!! i have the nicest husband ever and my ex was a cheater and is in prison and all i do is think about him i feel sooooo bad but i cant help it people tell me though that i need to put more energy into my marriage and less into my ex thats all you can do trust me your not going to get over him so just try to pay more attention to your husband!!! good luck! we'll get through it!
2007-03-03 13:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by I love America♥♥♥ 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
learn 2 appreciate ur man, find a bond w/him,think about him & ur kids when u start thinking of da ex, ALWAYS remember da ex was a cheater, try 2 think of all the **** u went thru cause of that & maybe u wont want 2 think about him anymore
2007-03-03 13:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
1. Stop visiting myspace
2. Realize you are missing out on life by living in the past.
3. Buy a monkey
2007-03-03 13:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by Cc 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋