I have a long time affair with a married woman. Then I fathered a
child with yet another woman, called Elaine. My lover, Guinevere,
became jealous and gone mad for the third time. Her husband started to suspect us.
How can I get out of this mess?
Lancelot
2007-03-03 05:14:57 · 12 answers · asked by ask 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sir Lancelot... go a a mad hunt for the holy grail. That'll take you out of the picture. Didn't anyone catch this one?????
2007-03-03 05:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by Wisdom??? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Borders bookstore, buy this book called "Surviving an Affair" it will help you break the chemical brain addiction that the affair brings, you really do have the power to end it, just seems like you dont. If it is really meant to be the only way you will know is to walk away, and let things happen dont push them.Somebody has to end it. I just went through the same thing,my lover ended it but says he is still very much in love with me as I am to him, but you never know what is going to happen.
2007-03-03 06:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out while the going is good. She should not be having an affair - and you are just as much at fault for condoning it and being party to her extra-marital affair.
Break it off, cut contact, and worst case scenario - get a restraining order.
2007-03-03 05:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by ~Z~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could leave town, and begin a new life without all this, hopefully u have learned something from this unpleasant experience. stop seeing the married woman, so she can go back with her husband and make her marriage work. stay with the one who isn't married with your child, grow up, mature, get some therapy.
2007-03-03 05:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit contacting her and don't answer any of her calls or emails. Make it seem like you fell off the face of the earth.
2007-03-03 05:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take what you got coming. You should not have started something you can't finish, but I bet the husband can for you.
2007-03-03 05:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk away, tell her to never call you again and find a single girl. Not rocket science.
2007-03-03 05:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple.STOP calling her,talking,e-mailing and seeing her.End it completly.If she persues you get a restraining order.
2007-03-03 05:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by mosrider2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start studying about morals.....you must have missed the boat on that one.
2007-03-03 05:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
easy call it off
2007-03-03 05:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by happyman82385 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋