if you were 15 and a boy u like iz 18..............he treat u rite and dont rush u n 2 nothin..........he buys u things cause he want 2......he takes u 2 places u've neva been 2
is this rite 4 me 2 b with him?
2007-03-03 05:11:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
^^That's my g/f :)<3<3
Look, I'm in your shoes only I'm the 18 yr old.
I tell you this I'm not with her because I want to get in her pants, If I wanted to get in someones pants I could just dump her and find some worthless p.o.s. at school.
You should always be a little skeptical though, I've met guys that are fake to their girlfriend just so they can get in their pants, and they are despereate. Not all guys are the same, some of us just want sex and some of us want a real relationship and if sex happens, sweet why would I turn down sex?
Be realistic, sex goes through his mind sometimes. The longer he waits for you the more you will know he's right. Even if he does want to have sex, if he shows good control over it and is willing to wait for the right time then he's the guy for you. As long as you don't feel pressured or anything then it's cool.
Don't worry dude, take it easy but if he starts insisting on sex and stuff like that, get out of the relationship quickly. Also do this, ask him if he would have sex with you, if you aren't happy with the response..you know what to do. if he says " no I don't want to have sex" then he's lying. but if he says "yes but I will but only when you are ready to" then that shows how much he respects you a person and now a walking *you know*
2007-03-03 05:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really up to you.
I'm in the same situation, but I know that for me it's right. My boy doesn't rush me into anything I'm not fully comfortable with nor does he pressure me to do anything. If your boy is the sweetest person you've ever been with then listen to your heart and you will then know what's right.
I hope this helped.
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2007-03-03 05:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anita. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try if you really trust him. BUT! be careful He could try to hurt you. One of my friends did the same thing, but it all went wrong. He really hurt her. I'm not saying you shouldn't go with him but just be careful and cautious! If he does something to make you feel uncomfortable let him know and if he continues get out fast and find a responsible adult.
2007-03-03 05:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u trust him yes but u should be aware that things can go wrong..he is a lot older and if hes in a dif grade then u...u never know what happens when u rnt there.
2007-03-03 05:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've put out a nice written question, full of details! That's good!
In that case, the answer lies within!
Ciao........John-John.-
2007-03-03 05:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by John-John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i wouldnt cuz i knwo all they want is to get in ur pants but i dotn know its your life....and its kinda gross
2007-03-03 05:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a dad and i wouldnt let you leave the house with him because this kid has hot flashes and so do you and this leads to babies.
2007-03-03 05:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by dan m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u gotta make sure hez not after one thing ....cuz guyz will tell u n do everything for u just to get it....i dunno the guy so i cant really tell u what hez like.....but there may be a chance hez after it.
2007-03-03 05:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
2007-03-03 05:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by honney bunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋