Should a man make good comments, even if he doesn't mean it?
Do you handle constructive criticism well when it comes to how you look?
Have you considered a negative comment, changed the way you looked, and been happy you did?
Are you asking the question because you honestly want to know, or do you just want attention from the man?
2007-03-03 05:06:07 · 11 answers · asked by S K 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As I female I can tell you we are always looking for positive comments when we ask. If it is a girlfriend asking always try to find something nice to say. Make it not really a lie but not the whole truth, what you might call a white lie. The fastest way to piss off a female is to tell her she doesn't look good. Also, always be prepared for this line of questioning. If you hesitate with your answer she will know you are lying and get even madder. If it is your wife, be honest. Most likely she is secure enough with you to take an honest answer.
No, I have never had a negative comment change me for the better. I view a negative comment as just that, Negative. They have never made me feel better about me.
When I ask what my husband thinks about my looks I am wanting an honest answer, but I am secure enough with my husband and who I am to understand he isn't trying to be ugly, he is just giving an honest answer. Most females don't think like that. So, be on guard. You never know when the question is going to pop up.
2007-03-03 08:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by invictus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually, we want a positive answer and we want you to mean it. We mostly want to look good for our boyfriend/husband so if you appreciate (even just the effort) say something nice. It doesn't have to be an over the top praise, but just say you like they way we look no matter what. When she has basked in the giddiness of your compliment, jokingly say what you really meant to say (without sounding offensive).
2007-03-03 05:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women are expecting a positive reply, which is not always the case.But, it's better if you tell them the truth so you don't lie to them.She asked,right?I guess some women can do it for attention, but you should always be honest.
2007-03-03 05:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by Marla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I expect a honest answer I don't want to look like a fool when i go out
2007-03-03 05:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We want honesty, I always ask my husbands opinion before we go out, I dont want to look bad. It wont hurt my feelings if he doesnt like my outfit.
2007-03-03 05:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women in general ,myself included
really want to know,
getting constructive feedback, is welcome,
and women want a person to give praise,on there own
we hate asking for it
we are very all about talking,our self esteem,sex drive etc
a nice word about our clothes,face,whatever goes along way,find something you like,let her know
and she will be more inclined to please you, few women dress to please themselves,
they dress to get attention,get the guy, show off and more reasons
hope this answered the ? i cant speak for all women
just the couple hundred,I know
2007-03-03 05:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by twocrafty65 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i prefer to have an honest answer and a clear one...not i dont know and not u always look nice...i just need an honest one..i dont know about other girls but thats me
2007-03-03 05:25:40 · answer #7 · answered by dimaabdin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know the answer to that but a good question, indeed!
2007-03-03 05:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by Shiv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i ask, i want the truth. if i wanted a lie, a i would say so. if i look like death warmed over, i wanna know
2007-03-03 05:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they want a complument or they wuldnt ask you.
you can anser honestlie if she donut look good, but you wont get any secks from her.
2007-03-03 05:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by Timothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋