on my wedding night we didn't even have sex. how do i turn him on
2007-03-03 05:05:50 · 11 answers · asked by horse luver 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Relax.
Ask him what he likes and wants. My wife's first husband was gay, and that is not what you wanted to hear.
Take your time with him.
Experiment and find things that feel good. Massage and rub in non-threatening ways.
Take a shower and ask him to massage you.
Tell him what you like, or think you might like. Let him know that you think he is wonderful, build him up.
He will come arround.
If not you should both see a doctor, but that is probably not necessary.
2007-03-03 06:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by WhoKnows?1995 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you automatically assuming that something you are doing or aren't doing is the cause of you husband not being turned on? Did you ever think that it could be something with him? What redblooded man doesn't want to devour his wife on their wedding night? Have him checked out for defects.
2007-03-03 14:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOu didn't even have sex on your wedding night? What is wrong with him...? Surely there is a reason....
2007-03-03 13:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lose weight, shave the cooter, show him what kinda freak you can be....It's different for every guy. Listen to what he says. There are just as many subtle hints with men as there are women. Hope this helps.
2007-03-03 13:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a marriage counselor or a doctor. There is something seriously wrong with your husband.
2007-03-03 13:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWWWWW.
I'm so sorry!
Try asking him and listen to what he says.
If not just go to victoria's secret and try on a few things...
2007-03-03 13:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anita. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weird..... i wonder why he wanted to marry you?
well, marriage is about being in a partnership and you both should be trying to please each other. let him know that if he doesn't care about pleasing you, then you can easily find someone who will be ALL about it.
men are a dime a dozen, no point in wasting your time with someone who doesn't give a ****.
2007-03-03 13:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
TO THE DIVORCE PAPERS!
OR
Viagra?
there's probably a medical issue to it so just talk to him about it
2007-03-03 13:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your both just in-experienced, dont worry just enjoy learning...youve got a lifetime to get it good. :-)
2007-03-03 13:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by robert m 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what? u didnt have sex on ur weddin night? why? bcuz he wasnt turned on? oh wait..ur the one who asked...ASK him what is goin on and what he likes...then go for it.
2007-03-03 13:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by Just_Me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋