2007-03-03 05:00:05 · 7 answers · asked by desrtflower2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You never will but you will have to move on in life.....it will take a lot of time and maybe you need to talk to a therapist. Please make sure that you are spending alot of time with your friends and family this will help.
2007-03-03 05:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by thats me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry if this involves your husband. This is going to take time and you will never get over it completely but time heals all wounds. If you are needing help then get either some counseling or join a support group with people who are going through a loss as well. The one thing you need to do is get around friends and loved ones and talk about this.
Keep in mind that he is in heaven and laughing with the angels and that he would want you to be happy. One day you will meet up again but not now so you need to find things in your life that will bring you joy. He would want this for you, you know.
Here are a few places that may be of some help.
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/grief_support/
http://www.griefnet.org/
http://www.griefhealing.com/
http://www.griefshare.org/
2007-03-03 13:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my grandmother who raised me 10 years ago this year when I was 17. It destroyed me. Literally I became self destructive in my behavior.
It took me years to get to the point that she was gone for good, do not let yourself deny that in any way I think is the biggest thing.
I cannot imagine losing my husband, He was a big part of helping me get through her death.
My prayers are definately with you.
Try writing him a letter and just let everything go. then fold it up and put it away. I think sometimes we have so many unsaid things that have to be said for us to deal with a death of a loved one. I know I couldnt get over it, I am still not over it but I have accepted it.
Prayer is also a powerful tool.
I wish you the best! Hope that helped in some small way!
Megan
2007-03-03 13:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by megs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no real answer to this question. Seek a friend or even a counselor to talk to about what you are going through. Do whatever feels right to you until you start to feel better. Just don't give up on life.
2007-03-03 13:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by acholtz@verizon.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
findd peopule who been through the same thingg likke a sopport group.
it is hard i am shure and i wish you welle.
2007-03-03 13:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by Timothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a cry, and find a new guy.
2007-03-03 13:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
time,time, and lots of it ...sorry.
2007-03-03 13:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋