help! ok ive got this friend and she really needs help! now shes emo and she has a lot of problems. i really feel like i need to tell some1 but she said that if i tell then she will just kill herself faster, i tried to tell the counseler once but they really dident do anything. what should i do! please help!!!!
2007-03-03 04:59:27 · 6 answers · asked by angie n 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I dont know exactly what your friends problems are but if she is threatening suicide then she needs more help than you can give her , this is something a professional has to help her with . If she is that bad she is beyond the help of just a friend , it sounds like she is calling out for help and wether or not she will kill herself quicker if you say anything I dont no but neither do you so it sounds like she wants to do this regardless of what you say , this is sad first of all that she would consider this and second of all that she would involve you in this and put you in a situation of whether or not to tell , I am so sorry for you. but in either case I would definately tell someone like the next time she says this you need to call 911 they can get her the help she needs and they know exactly how to handle it , if it was me , the next time she says this I would first of all make sure she is safe and then as bad as it sounds I would not tell her what I was doing but I would call 911 and make them aware of the situation , then I would call her family . One day she would thank you for it , what if she does do this and you didnt do anything except talk to the counseler, although it would not be your fault at all , you would probobly blame yourself for not doing more . good luck to you and your friend and I will most definately be praying for you both and for her family
2007-03-03 06:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by lilsis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, be real there is only so much you can do about it, if you start to give up everything around you will to, keep it simple and down to earth, there is nothing you can do if she takes or already take this kind of drastic decisions if you tell her dont do it she wont feel better but if you tell her what she does not expect I can assure you that you will make such an impression in her head that it will help, these kind of techniques are known as inverse psichology it means: give someone what they dont expect ex: Some one says F*#@*# YOU! , they will expect agression in return... instead you say Thank You sweety! and quietly walk away.
2007-03-03 13:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by Masterpiece 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you r hear is telling you the right thing to do you need to run and tell someone if your school wont listen tell you parents , tell her parents, call someone who can help i reccomend that you call the boys and girls town national hotline, they can assist you and her and even if she hates you for it you still need to tell someone and get her the help sheh needs this is serious tell her you love her alot and thats ehy you are doing this... good luck and i am sorry you have to deal with this
2007-03-03 13:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cutters are not suicidal, but they do need help. It does not clear up on it's own. Look up "borderline personality disorder" and see if this is what is happening.
2007-03-03 13:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes! try introducing her to jesus christ as her personal savior for slavation, try taking her to church being taught by a good pastor! Jesus saves you when you have faith in him! Jesus saves all types of ppl even emos
2007-03-03 13:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell her parents IMMEDIATELY!!!
2007-03-03 13:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by acholtz@verizon.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋