...I'm afraid she won't like me anymore or will think I'm weird because my house is so ugly and small. I've been to her house and it's huge and very pretty, her room looks great. Mine is small......because I live in an apartment building. And I'm not American so she will think I'm weird when my parents and siblings talk in a different language. So what should I do so she won't think I'm weird?
2007-03-03 04:57:40 · 6 answers · asked by ? 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The size of your house or room has nothing to do with the size of your heart or the size of the friendship you are offering to her.
If she is smart enough she will be blind to all the material stuff and just concentrate on meeting your family and learning more about who you are and how your family is.If she can get pass that...maybe you need another friend. I think it is a great oportunity to show her a different world that she does not understand or knows.I hope for her sake she realizes that. And I hope you just get to be yourself when she comes to visit. Don't try to show something you are not. You are who you are and have what you have, materialy speaking.Don't be ashamed of anything and don't try to pretend you are something else. If she was your friend before she saw where you lived...she will remain your friend after a visit to your house.
And maybe on a friendly note...if she is cool about everything ask her to help you redesign your room and do it together as a project. You could have lots of fun and that will make your friendship stronger.
2007-03-03 05:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A true friend will never judge you nor think anything bad about you, especially where you live. Or your family and having more than you will not break up a true friendship...
2007-03-03 13:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is a real friend she won't think that or not be your friend
2007-03-03 15:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your friend she won't think like that
2007-03-03 13:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by Bob D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and act natural---it will work out.
2007-03-03 13:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is your friend she wouldnt mind those things.
2007-03-03 13:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋