emotionally i mean...
2007-03-03 04:35:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I would rather be the one hurting. I would be hurt by seeing someone else I care about hurt anyway. Besides, I've been hurt so many times in my life, I'm almost used to it.
2007-03-03 04:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of us want our loved ones to hurt and we try our best to see that they don't. On the other hand the same idea should apply to them that they do not need to be hurting us emotionally either . If you find that is the situation and it involves your own kids then you need to use tough love and this is where you have to be a bit tough with them and say hey, I love you but I am not going to put up with this. Then stick to your guns.
On the other hand, if you are in a relationship where you are hurting and if it is due to emotional abuse then realize that the person who does the abusing can not love you that much or they would not do it.
The main thing here is to not accept emotional hurt caused by others in any case.
Other then that if I could take on any of my loved ones hurts I would gladly but thankfully we have prayer instead and that can remove more hurt then we can ever do on our own. Just talk to them and let them know they are loved.
2007-03-03 12:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess I would rather hurt, cause if I had to watch someone I cared about be hurt that would hurt me anyway.
2007-03-03 12:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It being that if someone I care about is hurting then I also hurt, I would rather just carry the pain for them. It even pains me to see a complete stranger hurting.
2007-03-03 12:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will take the emotional hurt because I am used to it and can take it better than someone I care about!! @80)
2007-03-03 12:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd probably take the blow myself and spare my friend! I have strong shoulders. Helping other people only makes me stronger within. I take the situation handle it and send it away. Sometimes I feel like I can take more than most people. Why do I always do that? I never get anything in return!!! Now my own problems can get me down but I seem to be able to absorb everybody elses.
2007-03-03 12:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would spare my children and husband any kind of hurt they come across and take the burden on myself. I really hate to see anyone hurting and if I cared about them, I just as soon it be me.
2007-03-03 12:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be hurt. I'm a pretty strong person and no matter how strong anyone else is, when I see someone with the slightest sad expression on their face, my heart bleeds.
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2007-03-03 12:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by Natalie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would much rather hurt for my friend, and i know that really sounds cliched, but its true. i can hide my hurt and sometimes my friends cant. im one of those people who will have something wrong and not say anything about it, but then go home and cry and im trying to stop that
2007-03-03 12:38:38 · answer #9 · answered by melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hurt before I would see another hurt.
2007-03-03 12:37:58 · answer #10 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋