My boyfriend and I are going to have sex, both virgins, I am and really nervous, can u give us some tips?
2007-03-03 04:21:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Personally, I think you should be married first before going into sex. Second, are you sure he's a virgin?? I know this is a bit strange, but I think it would be best if you both go have tests first before doing this thing. Now, if both of you can't control it, then make sure your BF uses condom. If not, you should refuse having sex with him.
As for your question, I think being nervous is part of the beauty of it. However, our sex education teacher once said that petting before sex can alleviate this nervousness. Don't go immediately into the main course, have some appetizers first, if you know what I mean.
2007-03-03 04:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by Dowland 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK, 1st off it is OK to be nervous.
Like the above posts say, take it nice and slow. Make sure HE knows that BEFORE you guys get hot & bothered.
Make sure you're both doing it for the right reasons...love...not just something to do on a Saturday evening.
I don't agree with the above posts saying you must be married, but I DO think you both should care about the other deeply.
PLEASE use protection.
I hope it's a nice experience for you both.
2007-03-03 12:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Relax it is a natural thing. Don't be nervous. He is probably going to be done in like 15 sec anyways and you will be thinking thats it. Don't be discouraged he will get better and last longer with practice. Make sure you use a condom and some ky jelly works wonders.
2007-03-03 12:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it with the lights Off!
It’s a little easier and Try starting off slowly with foreplay then start using your hands then one thing will lead to another....
You get the idea!
just until you get some practice
Have Fun! and Enjoy!
2007-03-04 07:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by Just me! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go slow. Plan out what you guys are going to do first. Talk durring sex like say go fast or slow or keep doing this or I like it when you...... and stuff like that. If you don't talk, then your first time might be a waist of time.
2007-03-03 12:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, how old are you, how long have you been dating, and why do you want to have sex? Are you two just curious, mabey a lot of your friends are doing it (or saying that they are)?
RSVP, I'll keep an eye and post back.
2007-03-03 12:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by outside0verthere 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get some lube, and put some on his penis.
Talk to him, be open and enjoy the moment.
Go slow
Make sure you both now how to make the other orgasm.
Make it last, once the cherry is gone its gone.
Good Luck
2007-03-03 18:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by mevanr8x7 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take it slow if the time ir right it will happen if not try some wine
2007-03-03 12:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, don't!
When did you get married?
Are you even engaged?
What is the rush?
How old are you?
What are you going to name the child?
What faith are you?
Just a few of the questions that come to mind...
2007-03-03 12:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by AK 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
i/ll give you a really good tip DON/T DO IT
2007-03-04 17:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋