I like her but I don't know if she likes me, she I pay her more attention?

Question

She seems very different if i'm not paying attention to her. We have a strong bond at times, but sometimes I just don't feel like talking. So I withdraw from everyone. When this happens my female coworker seems more withdrawn also but once I start talking again especially if it's with her she becomes her normal happy self again. I don't understand why she does this. She makes me feel guilty but I have problems because I take massive amounts of caffiene, and if I don't have caffiene in my system I crash hard and don't want to deal with anyone. But I'm not a jerk to anyone, I just get very quiet and keep to myself.

Answer 1

Personally, I think she likes you.
If her mood swings follow yours, then that means she is partly emotionally attached to you. Most friends do not become attached like this: they will try to comfort you, help you, etc...

When you "don't want to deal with anyone", she doesn't know why.... so she feels sad, because maybe she thinks it's because of her.

You can ask her out. (I really think you should.) If you both like each other, then you can tell her about your caffeine situation. Then, the next time you "crash hard and don't want to deal with anyone", she will understand why. She will know that it's not because of her, but because of your problems. Then, she will give you space. And then, you will not feel guilty.

I hope you find a way to solve your caffeine problem......

Take care -

Answer 2

On ething for sure shez a faithfull freind...well looks like your that kind off person who express anger quitly which is preetyy good cause trust me some people go wild lol Well it seems like she is preety much interested in you perhaps you could try sharing some of your feelings with her ..cause when you express your feelings your heart grows lighter n reast assured you will defnitly feel better Have a great day !