My finace and me i love her. she is pregnant and i want to go out on a friday or saturday. and she gets so mad. and then she turn's around and calls my parents and tell then alot of bad things about me. she also has ceaser with lights and high sound so i cant take her with me. I am 20 and she is 18. what should i do?
2007-03-03 03:38:26 · 5 answers · asked by cas12211221 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like you got yourself in too deep too fast young man.
No turning back now, so here's the thing....
Your job right now is to take care of your wife (yes, consider her to be your wife now). She needs you and obviously resents it when you want to go out and have fun when she can't. You are both young and got yourselves into serious "life" now, so take responsibility NOW. Trust me, you will have loads more fun if you take your life and commitment together more seriously. You will enjoy each other and your children far more.
Do the best you can and best of luck.
2007-03-03 03:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well right now your fiance is going through alot. I mean she has all these emotions and her hormones are running wild. Of course she is going to be upset that you want to go out on the weekend while she is pregnant and can't. I think a lot of females would act the same way including myself. I just got over being pregnant on Mon. actually and I would of gotten mad at my fiance if he went out on me while I was pregnant. Maybe you should try looking at things from her point of view. You should definitely sit her down and have a serious conversation with her to solve this issue. You don't want her to feel as though you don't care about her feelings. Having some ones baby is a big responsibility and it can be stressful trust me I know. Right now she needs you and the last thing you two should be doing is fighting. Maybe you can even work out a compromise like maybe you could go out once or twice a month instead of every weekend or something. That way you can still do your thing once in a while and your fiance won't feel as though she her feelings are being over looked. Either way talk to her a.s.a.p. Good luck!
2007-03-03 11:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's time to grow up and start acting like a man. Going out on the town on the weekends shouldn't be part of your agenda anymore. You have a baby on the way and you should be saving money for that child instead of spending going out drinking. You need to spend time with your pregnant g.f and start making plans for your future together. It's time to prioritize. Have friends over on the weekends instead of going out. There are other ways to enjoy yourself which can include the mother of your child.
2007-03-03 11:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy! ! !
what went wrong?
Anyway dont get mad at her
you should understand it is the situation is in.
Dont worry things will change after some time.
But i dont get it at "20/18 a baby" That show that you will soon be a dad.
2007-03-03 11:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by Queenter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW, does she not trust you and have you given her a reason not to? I think as long as you are not out doing anything wrong...you should be able to go out but not every weekend...you have a baby on the way and your life is getting ready to change....
2007-03-03 11:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by thats me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋