All she ever wants to do is "jump my bones." I feel like that's all she keeps me around for. I guess women are just that way. Do any of you guys feel that women are just using you for sex? Don't you sometimes wish they had a little more emotion, and would let you know how they're feeling. I just want a deeper emotional connection, and I'm trying to make my wife more sensitive, just like me.
2007-03-03 03:32:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
STFU, and quit gloating, you lucky bastard.
2007-03-03 03:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by Guncrazy 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Are you for real???? Lighten up, enjoy it while you can, the sensitive part will come or develop as the years go by and you learn exactly who you really are. Right now ,you are still getting to know one another. You are trying to jump ahead in the book, let it develop the way it is supposed to. Get the physical out of the way first. It is okay. Enjoy.
2007-03-03 03:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by territizzyb 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Usually it is the other way around that it is the guy wanting it. But women are like that too. Open communication is the best thing. Let her know that you enjoy the lovemaking between you guys and that you would like to talk with her as well. Like afterwards laying there is bed. Talk about things. About what is going on in your mind and things like that. Maybe she will be receptive cause it isnt that you are telling her to cut sex off. My man and I talk all the time. The best for us is when we are in bed afterwards and talk about anything but everything.
Good luck.
2007-03-03 03:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about talking before or after? Set up some dinner plans were you guys can talk. Plan weekend trips or outings. Go to a museum during the day...talk and hang out, and then go home and take care of business.
My guess is that you guys are newly married. After 10 years of marriage, things settle down...trust me.
2007-03-03 03:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you have to be joking. Oh I m not saying women don't want sex but this is a clever twist. Talk to her, tell her how you just need to cuddle sometimes ;-) how you just don't always want raw sex. You poor man you, I am sure all the men right now on here are shaking their head in pity. It will get better :-)
2007-03-03 04:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try getting out of the house more. You would think you would love it but you get a little tired after a while, dont get me wrong, I bet you still enjoy it, becuase I still do but its not the only thing you want to have a memory of with that person. I would advise to go out and do new things.
2007-03-03 03:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by Herman B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be the only way she knows how to bond and communicate with you. There are people like that.......it's their way of expressing their feelings for you or revealing their emotions. It just may also be her high sex drive. Not everyone is a huge talker and affectionate.
2007-03-03 07:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have just gotton married then that's bad.If it's ben a while then talk to her in private and tell her"I feel like............We aren't really having a real connection here and I feel like you just want me for sex"but tell her nicely.And if she accepts then take her to the movies and think about having sex with her.Try not to make her mad.
2007-03-03 04:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
weird.....usually guys complain of the opposite... that women are too emotional and turn them down alot, so i am not sure if your situation is a bad one.
i guess my advice is to try and slow things down.... don't give her all the pleasure she wants right away.... make her wait for it a little bit, and in the mean time you could talk.
2007-03-03 03:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an unusual problem.
not too likely, but if it is true, you guys need some couples time together.
do something fun that is not in the bedroom.
Go play putt-putt golf and race go carts.
go out with friends.
Attend church and make friends with new people.
Then then you will have a basis for friendship.
Then you can have a lot of sex and feel good about it.
2007-03-03 03:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by WhoKnows?1995 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow. I think I like ou. You are the first guy I have met that actually wants more than sex. I liek to sit and talk, cuddle, and have sex. Sex is more than fun. It is a bonding between the husband and wife. Try to talk to her about this. Tell her is she doesnt want to listen then she wont get any sex for a month. It works, trust me!
2007-03-03 03:36:44 · answer #11 · answered by Ariel 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋