I'm 20 and have a situation I doubt is normal. I've had sex before, but it was not often that I could get an erection, so my girlfriend and I would simply have to be patient. Also, I've never had a self-caused ejaculation (will clarify this later). This was when I was 16 and 17. I've never had any impulse to masturbate, and thus I never have. I've had wet dreams before, so (perhaps mistakenly?) I don't think I'm physically incapable of ejaculating. I'm not necessarily nervous when I'm with girls (in a situation conducive to sex), so I'm not sure if that's the reason. I'm not so close-minded as to dismiss the possibility that I'm gay, though my wet dreams (I've had several, possibly due to the fact that I don't masturbate) are always to girls, and even in every day life I have seen an attractive girl and gotten an erection. But, again, it seems far beyond my control, to the point which foreplay often doesn't even work. What can this all mean? Are there various degrees of E.D.?
2007-03-03 03:00:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
the main thing is to relax. Also when youre trying ot get an erection, really concentrate on having sex. I dont think you have E.D. but its best to go to a doctor. i Think you might be losing interst in having sex. Also masturbate, its good for you. But people are normal even if they want to masturbate or not.
2007-03-03 14:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Flyboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are over-thinking your situation. It is possible you have some degree of performance anxiety. It may be useful for you to consider your attitudes toward sex and masturbation and how much they are influencing your behavior. It is quite unusual to have never masturbated and it might be a useful experiment to do so and see what your feelings about it are.
You could have a test to determine your testosterone level but I think it's in your head
2007-03-03 11:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by jonnyraven 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that worried get a blood test. This will show if you have something going on which may be wrong with you medically. It could be just a nervous condition.
2007-03-03 11:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by S W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your stressing way to much, enjoy your life. If your penis is getting hard, your good to go. Do yourself a favor and masturbate now and then, its good for guys bodies to jack off.
Your ok, good luck
2007-03-03 11:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by mevanr8x7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your overweight, you could have a low free testosterone level
2007-03-03 11:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋