I have a few fantasies that I'm not sure if I should talk with my wife about, these fantasies are not easy to talk about. 1. being humiliated because I have a small ****. 2. Watching her make love with another guy much more studly then me.
She is kind of vanilla, so I'm not sure if I should even bring it up.
2007-03-03 02:59:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldnt ask her to sleep with someone else while you watch,she will freak.It sounds to me your not content with yourself,yet your wife seams to think your the best because she married you didnt she.i would just consentrate on your relationship with her and theirs nothing wrong with sharing fantasies between just yourselves if you both agree.Their are lots of adult toy catalogues out their,get 1 and look at it with your wife and have fun with it. you can buy allsorts of things to compensate for you little thingy.(penal extensions,which you slip over your old man but it has an extension on it made from real feel soft latex.jut like putting on a condom.HOPE THIS HELPS.youll see mags for adult toys n things in the newspapers or other mags.if you oder something it is plainly wrapped for your discresion PABO is 1 mag its affordable anb brill.GO order it today its free.
2007-03-03 03:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by patsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can share these things, but that doesn't mean that she should or would be into them! Share yourself, but remember, some things are best left to fantasy, how would you really feel a day or two after your fantasy is lived through? Maybe you can find a middle ground that you can share these things with.
2007-03-03 11:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to your wife. As a wife myself I would want you to tell me. That isn't something to be ashamed of or even something that would upset her. (I wouldn't think). I would say she would be sympathetic to your insecurities and appreciate you feeling like you were able to trust her enough to be open with her. Besides, the size of your ***** is not the only thing that matters. Honestly, it's the way you hold her and kiss her passionatley that counts for anything. You can make up for it in size how you move. You need to talk about it and explain to her that you are worried about not pleasing her becase of your size (or lack of) and you want her to be honest with you and tell you what feels good to her. Having sex with your partner should be fun and feel good to both. You should be able to talk honestly and openly so that you are both satisfied. As for the watching other men make love to your wife, I don't think she would want that. You are who she loves, every part of you, just the way that you are. So stop worrying and just enjoy it! :)
2007-03-03 11:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, dude... you are a liar, straight up. LIAR LIAR!!!!!!!!!!!
i looked at your previous questions, and 4 months ago you said that your wife wanted a MFM fantasy, and now you don't know how she would react..... there is something wrong with you, and you probably don't even have a wife.
you are a moron.
and what the hell is "vanilla"
loser.
2007-03-03 11:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i recommend it. i did the same thing.. ( only mine is not small) but i had some fantasies about her being with another man and another woman.. it took some time for her but it made her real hot.. tell her during s*x. when she is good and hot.
2007-03-03 11:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by needingitnow342000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead talk to her women like to know their husbands fantasies, or i do anyway. when he tells me both laugh so hard about it being wishful thinking.we discuss everything and we make humor of it when it needs be and can be serious when we have to. a husband and wife should be best friends and lovers and partners all wraped in one .so go ahead talk talk talk.. maybe she will share hers with you..
2007-03-03 11:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by raven1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having her watch you go down on another man. Yeah, you're gay. Describing her as "vanilla" gave that away.
2007-03-03 11:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my man had a fantasy bout me sleeping with another bloke we talked about it for months before i did it he had me totally convinsed that he would be ok with it. after i did it i told him all about it and he broke his heart it nearly split us up he didnt blame me at all he just thought he would be able to handle it and he couldnt. my advice is if it aint broke dont fix it.
2007-03-03 11:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by showmethemoneygolddigger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to adult toy store and buy some good play toys,she will enjoy them.Another guy will just pull your marriage apart.
2007-03-03 11:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should be the one you can talk to about these things....granted she may not go for all of them. If she loves you she will atleast hear you out.
2007-03-03 11:11:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋