How would you feel if your live-in boyfriend's ex-wife called to ask a question about her TV not working?? She was drunk but he is the one who hooked up the system. They have been getting along lately - she never used to call at all! They do have a son together so I know they have to talk. It has been less than a year since they separated and divorced. We had an affair and he left her for me. Sometimes I think he feels guilty about what he did. Should I ask him to tell her to stop??
2007-03-03 02:54:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh my !! that is where the saying " if he will do it with you he will do it to you " comes in you are starting to think they might "hook up " well you should of thought of that before you went sleeping with a married man and then this would not happen. now you know how she felt or still feels . good for the ex wife !!!!
2007-03-03 08:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had an affair with a married man & now there's trouble in paradise? What goes around, comes around. You should both feel guilty for what you did, not just him. If your b/f wants the calls to stop, it's up to him to tell her to call only if there's an emergency with his son. It's not your decision to make.
2007-03-03 03:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
since he is the one who hooked the tv system and knows how to fix it better than anyone, I don't see the harm. and like you said they have a son together and that is his only responsiblitly he has. but helping her , does not mean they are back toghether, there are things that she is going to have to talk to him about her their son, so I guess you should get use of it. you have to have trust in order for a relationship, but since he cheated on his wife with you, how can you. you will never feel secure with her calling.I just hope he does not cheat on you like he did with his wife and son.
2007-03-03 03:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pay backs. Telling him makes no difference to him or her cheaters cheat so what you have is what you wanted.
A cheater. You know have a child & ex wife thats drunk. It's your call. Just my thought.
2007-03-03 03:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooooooooooh that's a slippery slope that one. you're right she's always going to be in his life so get used to it. they have a kid together so both parents are going to do what they can to keep that kid happy. if you try to put a stop to it it will only put a strain on your already strenuous relationship. a consequence could be she would withhold his child from him and that would be terrible. you could however suggest you turn off your phones at 10pm? so she won't drunken call.
2007-03-03 03:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's calling about a TV that he set up? No big deal. Infact, I think it's healthy for them to be friends especially since they have a son. What I don't think is healthy that he left her for you, but that's your business, not mine!
2007-03-03 02:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change your no. Let him get her calls on a cell phone which will be the only line she can call him.
2007-03-03 02:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't own him he can go have sex with ex wife if he wants too he did you they have something in common a son
2007-03-06 14:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, be honest about this certain situation, without sounding cruel to his ex.
2007-03-03 02:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by Cindybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he might leave u for her let him think and be extra nice tell him u love him latley if he trys to cook or fix sum thing lie and say good work honey make him feel special
2007-03-03 02:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋