i wont to have a baby but my boyfriend not ready so every time we ave sex e always wear a condom or pull out I could i get pregnant if e is always protected?
2007-03-03 02:14:49 · 16 answers · asked by Shawneice B 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
pulling out is not protection first of all....
secondly, even with protection you could get pregant
my husband and i were using condoms and shots and i still got pregnant.
2007-03-03 02:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by kaeh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is 100% so there is always that small chance that you could get pregnant no matter what he tries to do to protect against it.. If you want to have a baby but he isnt ready then respect him he has a reason for not wanting a baby just yet... If you dont want to wait then I suggest you move on and let him live his life.. You cant pressure someone into wanting a baby it could make things worse between ya'll....
2007-03-03 11:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by auntietawnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, I'm assuming your boyfriend doesn't want a child right now, hence the reason he is using protection. Don't try to "trick" your boyfriend into getting pregnant, he may run scared and then you will be raising the child on your own. Lots of single moms do it well, but ideally, both parents should be involved in the planning and raising of a child. It is expensive and time consuming to raise a child. Talk to your boyfriend about your desire to get pregnant and if he agrees that it's time then you won't have to worry about trying to "trick" him and can just let things happen naturally.
2007-03-03 10:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're ready and he's not, don't force him! It'll upset him and make things bad between the two of you more than likely... Condoms aren't 100% effective, nothing is... I wouldn't keep trying to do that if I were you, if you want a baby and he doesn't why don't you go and get artificially insaminated so then he won't have to worry about being a father since it wouldn't be his sperm? And that way you would get your baby...
2007-03-03 10:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by Baby on Board 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A baby is a responsibility that two people take not one you have to sit & decide you can't decide on your own cause it wont be your baby alone. The fact that it is the woman who carries doesnt give her the right to decide on herself decide together & I am sure you ll get a wise decision which is getting married before having a baby. Good luck wish you all the best
2007-03-03 10:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by kitycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would you want to get pregant if he dont want to dont push the subject You dont want to raise this child alone do you? Tht is not fair to the child either yes allot of women do it alone but would make it allot easier if you have it with someone who is willing and ready. And yes you can get pregant with protection and pulling out my 13 is a prime example of this I had to raise her on my own yes i did it but now that i am married and have another child and experienced it with a family it makes for a better life for all. Please think before you do this.
Think of the child not justof your self
2007-03-03 10:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by kansas chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! I had my first pregnancy from the pullout method because the condom broke. If you want a baby and he doesnt then dont get pregnant. You will end up alone and raising this child by yourself.
2007-03-03 11:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by chellyk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is semen present even before he ejaculates. It's that pre-ooze right after he gets hard, girlfiend. There are plenty of little guys waiting to meet an ovary in that little bit of semen. If you're not pregnant don't trick him by not sharing this info. Babies deserve parents able to take care of their every need for at least 18 years.
2007-03-03 10:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by mysticleah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to have a baby if your boyfriend doesn't?
Second of all the pull out method could get you pregnant.
If he doesn't want a child, he probably won't be there to take care of it either.
2007-03-03 10:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by T_Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible even if he pulls out, but if he doesnt want the baby he wont be there for you or the baby, and if he is there it wont be willing. Thats a dumb idea of force a baby on him,.
2007-03-03 10:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by atx_princess96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋