I have a friend who does this really annoying thing. She'll come over when like 2 of us are standing there and start talking to the other girl and turn her back to me. Some of my other friends notice that and it bugs them too. I think she does it to a lot of people. Sometimes she does things like that that seem really rude. How can i get her to stop?
2007-03-03 02:14:29 · 32 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
some people just cant handle groups... try talking to her one on one... she might not know she does this or she could just be a jerk
2007-03-03 02:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by sweetiecem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, lets be thankful it's not just you she does this to -it's everyone. So perhaps she is totally unaware that she does it or does it coz she's a little immature-she wants the attention of that person at that particular time.
My suggestion would be to tell her your concerns. She may say 'oh sorry i didn't realise' or react the opposite. Also say 'its not just me that has noticed'. Your friends will support u i'm sure. But be gentle!
Once you bring the issue out into the open, you will be so relieved, i tell u. Then u can start to deal with her properly. You might find she has issues in herself she needs addressing. But you do need to talk to her otherwise u will get frustrated and annoyed.
Hope this helps
Love Smyles xx
2007-03-03 02:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The second she turns her back and is in front of you, say in a very firm voice, "Excuse me!" and keep repeating it until she moves or turns around. Then say in a softer voice, " Excuse me, we were talking". This is not a bit antagonistic but it's going to make it very plain that she is doing something not acceptable to you. It sounds like you are nothing but polite and she is the rude one. I think it will work as I had to do that to a rude woman at work. After doing it a couple of times and having another coworker do it, she finally caught on and stopped her rude behavior. Good Luck and God Bless
2007-03-03 02:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by moonrose777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she do like that you can immediately talk to her saying her dress is so good today or her bindi is good or say that she looks so cute then the problem of turning your friend and talking will stop and she will start talking to you then you say her after many days that the way she do things make her look not good ... at that time she will realize what she is doing. this is called trying to pull attraction by forcing others so try this by saying her that she is attracted already.
2007-03-03 02:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by kevin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about mentioning to her that one of your other friends does something like this and it really bother the hell out of you. But if you don't tell her she won't know. Not all of us were told by our parents that it is really rude to show your back to a person. Good Luck!
2007-03-03 12:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by kyun ho gaya na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her. Sometimes people do things and they don't really notice that they are doing it. You need to go to her and explain the situation and explain to her how you feel. You might also want to tell her that other people notice and it annoys them as well. Just as long as you go to her with the right motive, she might even thank you for pointing it out.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-03 02:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a friend try to tell her nicely. Mention that you are SURE she doesn't realize it. Tell her she is such a good friend you don't want any stress between you. Then change the subject immediately to something she loves that is really positive about her.
2007-03-03 02:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by moondrop000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look sweet heart its very simple either u talk to her or else do the same to her it is so b'cause some ppl have this tendency that untill & unless the thing which they do to others when it happens inversely with them they cant understand it.so better try both of them the 2nd one would definately work cause every action has its equal & opposite reaction.so do the same with her.
2007-03-03 18:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her. maybe she doesnt notice and has no idea. be a friend and tell her. if you feel like u cant tell her than pull her aside and say hey i wanna hear too and than she wont be in front of you or move to her side so she can tell that she has moved in front of you. let her see what she is doing.
2007-03-03 02:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs.Vick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's stupid for you to get mad over that leave the girl alone i do that sometimes so the other one won't feel left out. Maybe she is doing that so you won't feel let out.
Jewel T
2007-03-03 02:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it. i know that sounds mundane, but it always helps me and my best friend work things out. just ask her nicely not to do that anymore because it makes u feel ostracized. if she's a true friend, she'll understand.
or u could always shank her.
2007-03-03 02:18:16 · answer #11 · answered by tralala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋