i am 13 and im pregnant HELP?

Answer 1

Hi There, You can ask God to help you out with this. HE will help you out. God is there for you and your baby. God loves you both. God bless you. Good luck on it. and be brave.

Answer 2

Can you speak with a parent, school counselor/ teacher, or another responsible adult about this?

Do you know your legal choices? The best bet is to find a supportive family that wants to adopt your baby (adoption agency?) Chances are, if you're not getting support from your family and/or boyfriend, then at the least the family that wants to adopt your child will support you (financially, and maybe even emotionally, if you share your feeling with them...they will do everything in their power to ensure the health of their future baby).

Of course, you could keep your baby...but consider the change!

Of course, you could do an abortion...but that could very well haunt you for a long time! After all, abortion (no matter how much you sugar coat it) is killing.

Back to adopting...I was adopted. My 17 yr old mom wanted the best for me...and may I tell you, I am forever grateful that she cared for me that much! It had to be difficult for my young biological mother, but she knew that she was doing the right thing for herself, me and my adoptive parents. I think that my parents helped her out A LOT when she was pregnant with me.

I hope that you find a good support system, and that you can draw some positive experience from this. No doubt, it will be tough, but that is what can happen when you have sex.

Answer 3

Depends on if you believe in abortion or not, if you do then the answer is obvious. If you don't then there's many variables to look at.

How is your family availability at the time of a crisis? Do they help you or do they run away(not literally)?

Who is the father and how do you think his family will react to this occurrence?

Pending on the outcome of the above variables you could go through life very easily or on a rocky course. I knew 3 girls at my high school that already had 3 year children at home when they were Juniors, you need to get a job at the most minimum of ages and try to have your family and the father help you.

Don't stand alone when you could have the world out there help you.

Answer 4

Have you discussed this with your parents? But you do need to see a doctor. It is very risky for a girl your age to have a child and you should be under doctors care.

If you feel that you want to do things and cannot take care of your baby you could always put it up for adoption. There are open adoptions where you can still see the baby off and on.

But first you have to talk to your parents. It will be hard at first for you and them. But you are there baby and they will come around.

Answer 5

13 and pregnant what kind of help can we give you? You need your parents during this time.. My sister was 14 when she had my neice and things work out pretty well for her once my parents found out.. Go and talk to your parents if they dont know. Dont try to hide it. You need all the support you can get during this time... Best of Luck

Answer 6

my sister was pregnant at 13 and had her baby at 14. now hes 6 and shes in college. its possible you just need to ask for help and stay focused. it wont be esay but its do-able. Youre not the 1st young person to get pregnant!

Answer 7

First you need to tell your parents, assuming that they will be supportive and loving. Then you and your family need to decide what is best for you. You could keep the baby, give it up for adoption, or get an abortion. This is going to be a very difficult decision. I suggest you seek professional counseling to help you cope with your emotions, no matter what you decide. My thoughts are with you and if you need to talk feel free to email me. Best wishes and take care.

Here are some websites:
http://birthright.reachlocal.net/
http://www.plannedparenthood.org

Answer 8

Go to this website http://www.ramahinternational.org/single_parent.htm . Scroll to the bottom and click on your State. You will see a list the pregnancy resource centers in your area. These centers are there to listen to you and give you lots of information to help you make the best decision for you and your baby. They will also help you know how to tell your parents, and they will be your advocate (they will support you).

They will do a free pregnancy test to confirm your pregnancy.

This website has lots of good information for you.

Always remember that if you love your baby, you will be a great mom, and with support, it will be easier. Contact a pregnancy resource center in your area for encouragement.

If you want to contact me directly, you may go to my website at http://www.birth-baby-and-mom.com/ and click on the "contact" button. I'll help you.

Warmly,

Alyson, Mother of 5 - My oldest daughter is 14 :-)

Answer 9

wow i didnt lose my virginity till i was 2 months from turning 16 by choice. im 18 and pregnant but i take my responsibilities like apy for medical and food and a place to stay. u need to talk to a councelor maybe at school

Answer 10

Your whole life Is ahead of you. If you have this child,you will not have a chance to be a kid.... you only live once,and you should seriously consider an abortion at your young age. It will cost a lot more money than you think to raise a child.... you are probably not prepared mentally or emotionally to start a family,and you should seek professional help.... Good luck.

Answer 11

well well well i bet u have learned yo lesson u need to tell ur mom or dad or who ever has custody of u do not get an abortion hopefully ur gaurdian will make u take care of the child well i guess u wont be having sex no more for at least 9 months ha well i hope everthing goes ok God please be with u