I'm about 20 lbs over weight and a little out of shape but I don't think that's the main problem. I think I just don't know what I'm doing sometimes. I'm 30 and have had 2 sexual partners. ANy suggestions? P.S. He always wants me on top.
2007-03-03 02:04:12 · 5 answers · asked by jretx 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I know exactly what you mean. Women on top is a great position, but boy does it burn! What I've learned is that after a few minutes, change the way you are doing it. Instead of bouncing up in down, kinda of laydown on his chest, wrap your arms around his neck and kind of grind against him. He'll still be bouncing you, but now not only do you have a new hot position, but you wont get as tired. Also what I've done in the past is lean back so that my hands are on his thighs, and use my arms as leverage. Another option would be to have sex on a chair so that your on his lap, but your feet are on the floor. That way you can use your feet to do part of the work. Hope this helps. I'm sure your boyfriend will be happy for all the new positions!
2007-03-03 02:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First If he always wants you on top, you must be doing something right......ever thought of that? Think of it as horse back riding. Just hold on for the ride!!!!!!! Enjoy!!! There is no right and wrong when making love. Only if your boyfriend can't get it UP do you have a problem. Turn up the music and bounce with it!!
2007-03-03 02:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by Miss G. H. Etto 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all, always in one position is going to get really boring.
Second, you really need to get in better shape. Whether you like to admit it or not, that IS the main problem. You don't really even need to lose weight, just get some exercise so you are stronger and more fit, and your endurance will increase.
2007-03-03 02:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by Arkayp 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There are many position you can try looking up "KARMA SUTRA"
on the Internet okay! and you should be getting in shape when it comes to having sex.
2007-03-03 02:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you wouldn't get full penetration, squatting on him may get tiresome on you, l prefer to be on top and l get full pleasure on thrusting.
2007-03-03 03:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by Goldfish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋