one of my male friends takes good care of me.. but this week I was talking with a female friend and he asked what happened, I didn't tell him anything since my female friend had a problem and it was girls' stuff that we were talking about.. now, he's not talking to me.. cause he said he has taken care of me (he asked if something happened to me) and I hesitated from answering what happened.. and he wanted to know what has she told me.. now, he's not talking to me anymore and he said that he would never takes care again.. why did he make a fuss about it? just because I didnt tell him my friend's problem. we were sort of close friends.. and now.. he doesnt even look at me..
2007-03-03 01:53:03 · 25 answers · asked by |_oveBits 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He is a control freak! God help the woman that marries him! Be glad hes gone!!!!
2007-03-03 01:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by sandra b 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You were right not to tell him what your g/f & you were talking about, since it was none of his business. You are a very loyal friend to your g/f for keeping what you two talked about to yourself. He's acting very childish, so just let him sulk. You don't need him to take care of you do you? Does he think he owns you & therefore should know everything you discuss with people? That sounds controlling to me & that's no friend I'd want in my life. Ignore him & move on. The sun will still set today & rise tomorrow, even if he wants to act like a child.
2007-03-03 02:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not? is your friendship worth saving? some guys think they need to be the hero in a relationship whether it's just friends or not. my advice would be to tell him that your sorry, that it was just some "female parts" problems, and you thought that he wouldn't be interested, and didn't want to embarrass your other friend. If he can't get over it then there is more going on with him than you really want to know and good riddance.
Sometimes saying sorry is easier than going through all the drama
2007-03-03 02:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by George G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sound's like a bit of jealousy on his part.
I don't think you should have to say sorry to him.
Just make it very clear that your friend didn't want anyone else to hear what was said. If it was he that was telling you something he would want you to do the same for him i'm sure! Make sure you stress this to him. He may understand than. It is not that you are hiding anything from him.
2007-03-03 01:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by janet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, there must be something fishy behind that, how close is he to your friends? Dont you think its a bit strange for a guy to get mad at you because of your best friend. Be very careful with him. Anyway go apologize and then watch him closely , i am sure you will know th e truth.
2007-03-03 02:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by Queenter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMM.. interesting..
Well he shouldnt get mad just because you didnt tell him what your friends problem was, He needs to be understanding and stop his ignoring stuff. He cant control you or your friendship with your friend.
By the way, its time you take care of yourself anyways probably, you seem old enough to stop mooching off a good friend. Ya know?
2007-03-03 01:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend can take care of you but he doesn't own you. You did nothing wrong.
What you could say is something like....I'm sorry it upset you when I didn't tell you what we were talking about...but it was someone she wanted to keep private.
Then if he wants to still be angry you've done everything you could do to fix it.....maybe you want to rethink how close you are to this person.
2007-03-03 02:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are a sorry person would you have say I'm Sorry".
You are talking about childish behavior. You need to see this stuff for what it is-coming of age.
You have plenty of time to learn what people are all about.
Don't take life too serious.
How will you know? When you get upset, you aren't using your good senses.
Have fun in life. There are plenty of people to meet.
2007-03-03 02:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can tell him that you regret that your decision not to share upset him, but that's not the same as saying that you're wrong. You're not obligated to tell him every little detail, especially where it concerns someone else, and not him or you.
The words "I'm sorry" aren't always an admission of guilt, if you follow them up with what exactly you're sorry for, and make it clear what you're not regretting.
2007-03-03 01:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by no potential! bless your cotton socks Like if i say don`t take that highway it finally ends up interior the fringe of a cliff , and you nevertheless take it and fall off the side i'm not sorry. No thats not what you mean. Forgive my rambling. My answer is not any.
2016-12-18 04:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He felt that he was excluded from whatever was happening. A little bit slighted.
Don't compound this by refusing to apologise to him.
I think I'd say something like, "I'm sorry that I couldn't tell you what was going on. She had told me something in confidence. I didn't know what to say to you because she trusted me to keep her problem private."
2007-03-03 02:00:36 · answer #11 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋