What I meant is that though I am just 13 I sometimes feel sexy because of which I cant do my work. I cant ask this to anyone I know because I feel nervous.
2007-03-03 01:16:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
This is an excellent question, especially from someone your age!
I am not sure if I can give you a full answer but this is what I think:
'Sexy' has got everything to do with fysical attraction. If you see it in a biological way, we as a species, should make children, so that we can evoluate. Because of this we got hormones, that make us feel that we want sex. Because sex is of course THE way to get children.
For a good evolution, we look always for the best we can find, and we want others to know that we are available.
And there you come to being sexy. Feeling sexy makes you more apealing to others. When you are as young as 13, your hormones just start to kick in. Slowly your body is preparing yourself for having sex. (which does NOT mean that you should have sex at your age!) So, from the age your hormones start to work, feeling sexy can become a part of you.
Feeling sexy also helps you on other levels, that do not refer to sex directly. In a way, feeling sexy helps you not only with sex, but also getting a good job, friends, because it radiates self asteem. People are (often unconciously) attracted to others who feel sexy, not just for sex. It can work like magic.
If you feel good about yourself, you probably also feel sexy. It's a natural thing.
Of course this goes to a certain level. You can feel sexy in a healthy way, and in balance with yourself. In that way, feeling sexy (which again does not always have something to do with sex!) is a very healthy thing.
Some people feel sexy in a not-healthy way. They are obsessed by being sexy, because they are actually insecure and feel that this is the way to get attention.
(sorry if I made some language mistakes. I am not a native English speaker and the spelling correction didn't work.)
2007-03-03 01:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by Bloed 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
PUBERTY!!!!! The Endocrine system is taking control. This means that u must avoid stimulating programmes and thoughts. Talk to your parent. Do sth while you're still young; it could lead to being perverted.
2007-03-03 09:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Thabi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hormones start changing your body and brain during puberty. The trick is to not get caught up in everybody's drama while it's happening.
2007-03-03 12:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Feel free to ask here, for no one on Answers will follow you to your actual life.
2007-03-03 10:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by Benvenuto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural. It's all part of growing up.
2007-03-03 09:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by kf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude
You are gonna have soooo much fun.
Good luck with puberty.
2007-03-03 09:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by brown one 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Fight it, If you can manage to avoid developing sexually, then women won't be able to ruin your life.
2007-03-03 10:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by raggnaar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋