I will try to make this short. I really dont know if there is help.
My family is not in the US. I met friends over the years, but moved, I
now live in a state where I have good friends who live a couple of hours away. I met and dated people over the years, some remained friends but they only want one thing. Thats how guys are. I met girls through work, since am not involved in many activities, but they are jealous and catty, and friendships never lasted. I am the type of girl who I guess attracts men but makes women jealous. On top of that, I have a jealous bf who lives out of state, and whom i hardly ever see. Things with us arent moving fast enough, been 3 years, and to be honest not sure if it is going anywhere, he is 8 yrs younger and has a child plus financial pbs.
But we love each other, however love is not getting us anywhere. I meet people mostly guys, but I cant date them, b/c i have a bf. Am soooo alone all the time. I work as a manager at a bank, long hours, no life, help!
2007-03-03 01:16:14 · 6 answers · asked by Mx2 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You could scrape everything and move near by your friends or make your boyfriend make a choice and one of you move to the other or you can dump him and start dating. The way you feel, you need to start making changes.
2007-03-03 01:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk about all the things you don't have....but what do you have that you value? A good job? Nice home? What about yourself? What do you like? What don't you like? Now, the biggy...you know what you don't want (the status quo) but what DO you want? Go on a retreat, some place quiet..ALONE...and just think about it. Keep a journal to remind yourself of the life you invision for yourself. Make a plan, start with small changes to implement that plan. Don't be impatient...it'll take time. Sounds like you need to define your relationship with BF (actually, I'd put him on the back burner...sounds like a dead end); develope some interests outside of work (volunteer, church, etc.) and make some friends. Don't forget, you generally get back from the universe what you send out.
2007-03-03 09:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mary P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand where your coming from being lonely is the pits. but if your relationship is not moving fast and you hardly see him. why just you move on. and find someone that will be there for you at all times. you deserve so much better. jealousy in a relationship is not good. move on. and be happy.
2007-03-03 09:22:04 · answer #3 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're wasting your life away. Come on over here.
2007-03-03 09:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to move down and do something w the relationship or split
2007-03-03 09:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by yea boy1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think i would break up with him and find someone else
2007-03-03 09:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋