Am I the loneliest person on the earth？?

Question

I study in a city far away from my family,and I have few closed friends here,I don't have a boyfriend.I was supposed to stay alone,but I was put into a dormitory with other 7 girls,and in this crowded school,the more people I see,the more I feel lonely...

Answer 1

You sound you hate people.

Answer 2

First of all, it's more than okay that you don't have a boy friend. You are there to get your education. If you meet someone worthy of you, that will be great. Keep you focus on your studies. Get good grades. Take advantage of the opportunity. Many don't get that chance that you have. It's very expensive so make it pay off for you. You are in control of your life.
You were put there for a reason. Most everything happens for a reason when it happened without your control. Maybe one of those 7 girls will end up being a life-time friend. Take it as it comes, things will work out. I hope you have a good place to study there, for that is important.
Let your school work always be top priority. Try to get in some fun things that you like to do. All studying is not good for you. Maybe there will be fun things where you live or with some of the girls there. I think it is safer to live with 7 than to live alone. It will probably end up being one of the best times of you life. You won't know it until you get older.
Just keep yourself as safe as possible and make wise decisions.

Answer 3

Its alright sweetheart. Being alone is in effect of your own self isolating.

Sometimes we think on such an external perspective that we forget that most of who we are is inside and that which can be seen from the outside is not truly who we are, it is a image we present to others that puts them in the state of mind that we would like them to be in consideration of how they see us.

Do you think perhaps that the other people around you cannot see the true you. Maybe your personality should be like the type of person that you would like to be Friends with.
We all have strong needs like love and companionship within us and this is full filled when another person sees us for who we truly are. Not only is it hard to trust another with our vulnerabilities but it it is also a great feeling and uplifting to the good spirit when someone else trusts you with something that is so important to them. The result from this trust and appreciation of this is strong bonds like prime chemical compounds in a sea of interacting elements.
Hope that made sense. I suppose i could also just say, open up to the people around you and listen when they open up to you and you will make good friends and if you feel lonely then, you wont be alone as so will your Friends.

Answer 4

Wow I don't understand how your lonely being on campus with all these hopefully nice people.
I can understand you are far from home and there is probably nothing you can do about it is there?
Have you thought about living off campus with one roommate?
Have you talked with your family about it?
Can they help?
Cause it sounds to me that you have depended on your family for alot of things and now that you are your own things are really different now.
You can't be lonely cause I know deep down in my heart you family will come and see you on the weekends or even pick you up for a visit.
Just don't give up on life and keep studying and remember that your family is there for you.
If that is not enough just remember God is with you too.
Just take a deep breath and take a moment to collect yourself and try and make it through the day and when it's over give your family a ring.
Good Luck to you and your studies.

Answer 5

You are not alone. Lots of people who leve home to study feel the same way.

If you are at an Australian University they have services to help you. The most important thing is to get out and meet some fiends with similar interests. People will be friendly if you approach them.

if you are just starting out you are probably surrounded by people feeling the same way.

Good luck.

Answer 6

Join a club or 2 (or a part-time job) that sounds interesting/fun. Get a dog or cat:)

(I'd imagine Y!A is FULL of lonely people--LOL!)

You're a very pretty young lady, I'd bet you'd have an easy time making friends with the guys you like!

Answer 7

you'll be ok. it can be difficult in the beginning but as time goes on you will adjust to things. it dont hurt to call home when you are lonel or write a letter to a friend but at least try and let things work cause in the long run you will be glad that you did. this experience of you being out on your own will make you a stronger person. good luck.

Answer 8

Make ur mind for the purpose u departed from ur family. Keep urself busy enough to achieve ur aim. and really u won't get the time to see other peoples. In other words this will keep you aside of thinking alone. Coz u have alwayz ur confidence,faith,power,books as ur friend. And believe me they never betray u.

Answer 9

Its easy to feel lonely around allot of people, for sure. Just don't isolate yourself as a kinda protective mechanism.
U will come appreciate your individuality more around more people and conversely appreciate others.
You sound like your just a transition phase, dont over think it.

Answer 10

not really baby girl. it's a common things when people are far away from love one's. trusting and true friends are hard to come-by. try to talk to your family as much as possible, as if they're here next to you. until you'll find a close friend, someone who you can confine with.

Answer 11

you just need to go out with a good crowd,you cant be lonely and felt useless life is too short for that,dont waste your time go out and socialize thats what you need