2007-03-03 00:33:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
everyone goes through these moments where we take life for granted...we see that life is crap! then we recognize that there are others that are living through worst situations than us...others that are suffering...it makes us realize that sometimes when we think our life is terrible, it really isn't compare to others...
going through trouble times helps us also, every experience we go through are lessons that make us stronger
2007-03-03 00:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by OnAJourney 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to have this high school principal who always used to say "Make it a great day or not- the choice is yours!" As much as I hated hearing it, he is kind of right. Perhaps you are suffereing from lack of confidents in changing the factors of you life that you dont like. Examine the part of your life that "make it crap" and see the best way to change it. It may be very difficult but know that when you put your mind to it- the possiblities are endless. If certain people make you feel bad about yourself- then try not to surround yourself with those people. And if that is impossible than changed your frame of mind. Only you know who you are and considering the terminology you used (crap)- you sound like you are kind of young. Look at life as your canvas and paint it how YOU want it. Reach out to people you trust and tell them how you feel. THe best way to feel better about things and to find a solution to a problem is to talk about it. Alot of times by saying it outloud- its almost like someone talking to you about THEIR lives. And if someone asked YOU for advice- would you tall them to give up? I hope not
So keep your chin up. THe best thing that I ever learned is that life is so much better after highschool and college and your experiences inschool and how people look at you has no bearing of how peoples perceptions of you will be later on down the road. I was never a good student yet now i am successful financial advisor adn I just saw my classes' validictorian pumping gas at the citco the other day. Dont give up. You will be who you want yourself to be
2007-03-03 01:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because what we focus on expands. Be careful on how you view the world because it is like that. "Our view of the world is a reflection of our characters". "The world is not as it seems, nor is it otherwise". "If we think constantly on the forces that seem to be against us, we will build them up to a power far beyond that which is justified. They will assume a formidable strength which they do not actually possess". You need to try something different in your life. Might as well being as what your doing now doesn't seem to be working out all that well. Be brave for just a little while. It'll come. "Change your thoughts and you change your destiny".
2007-03-03 01:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by lawolifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the choice to see things in a positive or negative light! I am still learning this. Today my daughter and I were watching the news about a bus crash that killed some students and some other terrible things,I said "damn that is so sad" she said" yes it is mom but what about all the wonderful things that happened to people all over the world today? we will never hear about them" So life really is a matter of perspective. We do not control what happens to us, we control how we respond to it! Cheer up sweet one.
2007-03-03 01:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by sandra b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is crap because you make it crap.
2007-03-03 23:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has their ups and downs.life is like a wheel, sometimes they are up and somettimes they are down. They are not always crap. The important thing is how are you gonna handle the situation when you are at down?You just have to know how to handle the situation.
2007-03-03 00:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by MiSz JaY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is like a roller coaster ride - up and down from beginning to end. Be strong, like yourself and use the learning from this crap to improve how you live it.
2007-03-03 01:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we neglect, and let the quality things slip through our fingers, like the knowledge of how good things work, and the neglect to do good when we can, and just let it float by , without an effort to retrieve. We waste valuable time following the lives of celebrities and polititions, and this silly Q&A of uncaring yahoo.
2007-03-03 00:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that you are going through a hard time in your life. There will be many ups and downs before your journey on earth is over.Please believe me that this too shall pass.
2007-03-03 00:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just is. I know it sucks, but just pull through it and do things for yourself. Be around the ones you love. Get over it and move on. It will help.
2007-03-03 01:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by Zenovia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋