Am not high class yet but i want a girl of class to help me keep focus on my goal( stay in high class) most girls around me don,t have ambition. They are just content with getting laid and shelter. My fear is if i don,t get a high class girl fast these girls may sink my ambition. Preasures if you know what i mean.
2007-03-03 00:23:11 · 15 answers · asked by lovely 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to be able to stand alone. this is something you shouldn't depend on anyone else to help you do or be...be yourself and make the best of your life.. only you can do that..
2007-03-07 04:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by txO3blueeyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not going condemn you for the way you are looking at your future life, although I will judge you and tell you that you have absolutely no idea of what a marriage and having a family is about. Don't get me wrong young brother because I am not accussing you of being a bad person, you just need a little corrective guidence. God had chosen a wife for you before you were even conceived. Many times in the bible it talks about the wife of your youth. It is a wonderful thing that you want to be high class, is that meaning good job, lots of money, early retirement, vacation home, etc.? If you desire all of those things achieve them prior to finding your future wife. You are already setting the stage in your mind that if you don't achieve it will be her fault, or you want someone to be your excuse the term ladies "sugar momma". Either way it's wrong. There is nothing wrong with having money and enjoying things in life, God allows us these good fortunes to enjoy least we not lose site of what is really important. A man cannot serve two masters. When you marry your wife as a man I was always taught that you do whatever it takes to support her and god willing your children. Teach them by setting that example. Who cares if your wife makes less money than you or doesn't come from the same social class. Booker T. Washington once said "There is as much dignity in plowing a field as there is in writing a poem." Seems you have a tough question to ask yourself, what is most important to you the status? Or the love of a good woman? Like MArtin Luther King Jr once was quoted as saying, "Vanity asks the question, is it popular? Conscience asks the question, is it right?" I pray that the lord will clear away the smoke and mirrors for you and lead you to make the right decision and quit looking for ways to hook up with a social status, because you will be doomed from the start.
2007-03-10 20:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by dad_raisn_5_onmyown 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are a great guy with goals of making something out of yourself, you won't have any trouble with the girls. You are the one who should keep you focused on your goals. Get your mind off of the wrong kind of girls you spoke about. Stay away from them. You know what they are like. They are like poison.
To get a high class girl; you've got to be a high class guy. You can be whatever you set your mind to be. Don't let anyone sway you into the wrong direction. Once you make up your mind to do and live the right way...don't let anybody mess up your plans.
YOU have to keep YOURSELF FOCUSED. When it comes to your dreams, be like steel. Sounds like you need God's help. You have a big order that God can help you with, all the way to the end. He's a God of many things. All you have to do is talk to him everyday and tell him your dreams. HE WILL see you through them. Give God a chance. Through Him you will find that girl of class if you haven't already found her.
Have you read the book of Proverbs? There are 31 chapters. Read one chapter a day for a month. Then, each month start over reading them til you take it all in. Proverbs tells us how to live and act. The Living Bible has a very good understanding. It starts out telling you that in the very first verse. Please, give it a try. You will never be sorry.
Live your dream out the right way...You will be very successful. God bless you.
2007-03-03 01:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by Barbra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"High class" people are normal people. Just because a person has lots of material things does not make them better people. They do the same things we do; some worse (look at Paris Hilton, Nicole Ritchie, Anna Nicole, Britney Spears, I could just go on;TRASH) But someone that has everything would appreciate the smallest thoughtful things if they have morals. Do most things from the heart not the pocket.
2007-03-03 00:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by asexystudd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
act normal --- and be yourself --- call a spade a spade (if you get my drift ) --- be honest and natural .
it matters not that you might get shunned --- you need to act normal and show any woman that you have an affection for ; that it matters not that they are low--middle--or high class --- it's a question of love and what your heart tells you to do .
you could marry a high class women thinking that that was the be all end all --- only to discover down the track --- that your life is a misery because you cannot ( for one reason or another ) keep up the expectations of your upper class wife ;from whom you were so hell bent on having . good luck
2007-03-03 00:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by bill g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all comes down to the most primal art of seduction. Women operate on different logic than men do. High quality women almost 100% end up with guys who are skilled seductionists. There's a great site that explains all about it in my sources.
2007-03-10 08:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a social climber.nothing wrong with that ,it is a way forward. make sure you have a good job and can afford the life style as being a the top does not come cheap.being high class is not about he amount of money in your bank it is about who you are and how you conduct yourself, your sense of dress needs to be good.and you need to move in the right crowd mind your manners and your language .be polite at all times even if you want to blow your top.
2007-03-09 01:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by fushia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
c.. if u wanna stay in that category of being high class... then u have to be ignorin the number of girls around u who r distractin u from ur goal... first find the girl u wan... jus don get along with her cos u wanna be in the high class... love truely.. and all this won matter...
2007-03-03 00:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by priyanka77_bhatia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont look for someone of a higher class u social ladder climbing phycopath. choose someone on there personality, hell even choosing someone on there looks is betta then choosing someone coz of there class. Online u can be ambitious none makes u more ambitious. u can be pushed by others to achieve things but look how that turned out for macbeth and his wife.
2007-03-03 00:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First learn how to spell, get an education. That is a bigger problem for you right now. After that It will be easier.
2007-03-10 22:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋