Accepting who i am?

Question

whenever i see somebody i love there style & everything & i wish i could be like them how can i accept who i am

seriously i don't love em

Answer 1

try to know yourself, maybe you can help with writing your positive characters and negetive ones. then improve the negetives and be proud of your positives. and dont forget nobody is perfect and maybe those you are regreting to be like them, they wish to be like you.
please solve this as soon as possible, then you can enjoy your life more and more.
good luck. and dont forget you are unique.

Answer 2

You could start by not worrying about what other people look like. Just be happy for who you are. Its mainly a goal that you could work on, on your own. I felt like that too in elementary, but I'm much older now, and I realized all the good qaulities, and talents I have, and never knew I had. I'm a good artist, gymnast, very flexed, get good grades and everything. I learned to be proud of myself, and like how I dress, and how I wear things. And theres nothing wrong with looking up to other people. Its okay if you like how someone else dresses, maybe they can help you find clothes like them, and make you a better person. Just don't be a follower, be your self ( a leader). Thats one important thing about accepting who you are. Well, bye!! My shows on right now!!! LOLZ :).

Answer 3

I used to be like that. It's hard to accept who you are when all you see are the flaws. Because it took a long time for me to realize that "Hey I am beautiful. And if others can't see that then too bad." So my advice to you is every time you start to think that you wish you could look like someone else look at the good things about you. What do people like about you. What attracts you to others? Those are the parts that you should be accepting about.

Answer 4

sure, u can accept ur self. If you like someone just like what i u've said. i think it's normal. Actually i'm just like u....But my problem is different...i really want to have an older brother or sister, but i cant be or impossible coz i was born as a single child in my family. And when i see my friends who have an older bro or sister i'll be so jealous...it because i dont have.

And for u, loving someone style is a normal...may be u feel it's not normal for now. But sooner or later u'll see that u are normal..

Loving someone style and suddenly want to be like them is a normal....

Answer 5

well start by liking who u r and revealing Ur inner true self out to the world to see...... Ur true self is like a buried diamond...... just focus on digging until u find it ....and when u do u will be the most attractive person u can imagine.....and it is very important not to try to be some other person because the real u is much more better than the person u pretend to be.... good luck

Answer 6

i used to have that problem but i'll tell u how i got rid of it , but firstly you should know that's totally normal to feel like you wanna be like someone else but you have to know that each one of us has sth unique , sth that god has given to u to make u special , i discovered what made me special and started to create my own personality ans style , so what u need to do is to dicover what makes u special or different and don't say that u're not special and start making you own style!....eventually you'll accept ur self and ppl will want to be like you!

Answer 7

First you have to love yourself and love who you really are and tell yourself that you are unique in your own way. When you start loving yourself then you will stop at looking at others and start accepting who you really are.

Answer 8

That means there is a great bond between you and that person which is called love.
It always happens to everyone not you alone.It usually happens to me especially when i see a girl i love i feel dumb and shy

Answer 9

just say you are following the fashion
everyone like style that is the latest and look good