their is this boy whos 15 and im 14 ive fancied him for a long time and we are good mates and everything but im shy of him and hes shy of me because he knows i fancy him and he seems to get embarrassed he flirts with other girls except me i mean he talks to me and helps me with stuff but when we are alone he doesnt talk to me if i see h walking on the way to school he looks allover the play he actually smiled at me for along time once, i kind of made a mistake by telling everyone i fancy him and everyone says hes not worth it that he doesnt like me in that way and he will never like me in that way, if i speak to him on msn sometimes he speaks to me and sometimes he goes offline we find it hard to talk to each other and he hardly speaks but hes nice if i say hi to him he will say hi back and when he sees me he doesnt usually smile that much, i dont know what to do should i move on because its reall hard for m to ask him out or do you think he fancies me or hes shy or not advice me plz.
2007-03-02 23:40:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
:( maybe he's not really into you.....
2007-03-02 23:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, he dosn't like you. Well, at least not like that. 15 year old guys tend to get uncomfortable around girls that they know fancy them. If you really want him to like you, or have him be the one to stare at you, just don't look at him. Smile if he smiles or say hi if he does, but nothing more than that. If he tries to talk to you on Instant Messenger talk for a couple of lines and then say you need to run. He'll start to notice you all the more. It'll work out in the long run, just don't panic. Happy hunting.
2007-03-02 23:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by James J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not asked this question at the first place, simply you are too young for acrelatioship unless you are horny.
Forget about this stupid boy. Stop wasting your precious time as a student. Be smart and making good friends are much more important at this stage. Leave it for the moment, your love life will come when the right time comes, trust me. Because, i was young too and very sexy, that's why I'm the sexyboy!
Good luck with your education.
2007-03-03 06:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sexyboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I would just treat him as a friend, sounds like he looks upon you as just a friend, sometimes this happens. I know what it's like to be young and have a crush on someone and they dont feel the same way. If i were you i would move on i bet there are loads of lad's out there waiting for their chance to go out with you. So carry on with your life enjoy yourself, while you are young and in later life you will know what i mean about enjoying yourself while you are young GOOD LUCK to you.
2007-03-03 00:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by kevina p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you a lot and hes just as shy as you are to ask you out, and you like him a lot and you are to shy to ask him out. so it'll keep going like that untill one of yous make a move. so i think you should tell him about your feelings and ask to go out to the mall or movies or anything you like. because that happend to me i liked this boy and my friend.. thats friends with him told me he liked me then he moved AND none of us did anything. so you gotta do something girl or you'll lose him. and ( word of advice) STOP USING THE WORD "FANCY" use like or have a crush or something. i mean we aree in the year 2007!! And remember dont do anything stuppid like stutter or anything when you ask him out because you dont want to look "stupid" lol GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-02 23:50:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys a loser, forget about him. Get interested with some other guy and watch his reaction. If he gets angry then you know he fancies you. If he acts like he isn;t bothered then fine.
2007-03-02 23:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wether he likes you or not is irrelevant if the communication between you two is that bad. So even if he did, nothing would likely ever come of it.
2007-03-02 23:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl coming from ex he's trying to make u jell. so steep up OK before some one eles !
2007-03-03 00:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by missnikki1996 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young for that stuff. Tend to your study and future first... Everything will come to you later.
2007-03-02 23:44:57 · answer #9 · answered by richeb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds a right **** darling i suggest if he don't flirt then he don't fancy you don't worry darling move on find some one who appreciates you
2007-03-02 23:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he dosent like you so you should just move on you most likely can do better any way!
2007-03-03 00:42:34 · answer #11 · answered by I <3 you! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋