I am in love with someone who is married. We met coincidentally and we're falling in love. Afterwards, we want to start our life together, even he already has wife. I know he is a very special man and i trust that he only loves us both, there will be no other woman after me, because both of us (me and his wife) know that he is not that kind of guy who likes to play girl or something. But the problem now is lately he can't accept that i have lost my virginity before i met him, even i have told him long time ago that i am no longer a virgin. Now he always remind me that he cant accept me and want me to leave him. He said that he always dream about me with other men. He also said that based on bible i am not his already. He also compare me with his wife that gave her virginity on their first makelove. What i know that i can't and won't leave him as I love him so much that i can't live without him. I am willing to give my life for him. Please, please.. advise me what to do.Thks
2007-03-02 22:31:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What to do? To dump him and move to some honest man. This man played you up for sex, when he had had enough, he started comparing you to his wife and making excuses. If you and your wife know different, then you are too naive.
Now he is looking for a new lover, who will be the last woman, and no other woman after her...
2007-03-02 22:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad girl, You can not undo your past no matter how hard you try. You can only learn to live in the present and those present choices mold your future. You wrote and are asking for help on a helpless situation it is hopeless because you are degrading yourself for someone that doesn't sound as good as you think he is.
Here is the tough advice that you asked for: Leave him, the main reason to leave him is he is special alright and special as in these three words Dee-Dee-Dee. Sad girl you need a man that loves all of you, and see past your past and can put you in his future without having strings and conditions attached outside of that you love him and he loves you and you both respect and honors each other. If this man is really such a bible thumper why is he with you in the first place defiling his martial bed and home. And as for the part that you and his wife or the only women in his life that is a major self denial on your part if it ain't women who knows it just may be other men but by know means kid yourself that you are the only one outside of his wife and that is why he is lying that crap at your door so that he can slip out on you.
2007-03-02 22:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a DOG, leave him alone and let him give his wife some disease when he cheats again and he will because he is a DOG! You posted earlier that you two were going to live together so that has all changed now? Did you realize that he was not a virgin? You should not be with him. Take him to the curb like the trash he is
2007-03-02 22:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant believe your if in the middle of some ones marriage and your in total Danial.Go to a shrink and get some help.If the idiot reads the Bible he must of missed the bit that's tells him to be true to his wife and only have sex with his wife. The guys a jerk and I'm sorry but your an idiot.
2007-03-02 22:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by deb m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have an adulterer that does not want to be with you because you are not a virgin. And he has a wife and you actually care what he thinks about you. The whole situation is stupid. Move around.
2007-03-02 22:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guy has issues.-Cheats on his wife with you,& he has the nerve 2 want you 2 be a vigin HAHAHA Lose this nut
Good he can't execpt you .Get away from him it's a no win for you.Besides Cheaters cheat if you end up with him than he would cheat on you????Just my thought.
2007-03-03 02:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, now that he's made love to you he sees no value in you thus he needs to cook up a story to split. This is most unfortunate but its reality. Drop him and move on with your life.
2007-03-02 22:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow a sucker is born every minute! This guy is using you, and you think he actully cares. you and the wife are not the only women he is sleeping with.
2007-03-02 22:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is not a good thing what you do! Thing about his wife, if you will be someday in her place what you will do?? Make a boyfriend for your good, and let him go!!!!!
2007-03-02 22:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by Dya - The white Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away. You CAN live without him. He's married, lady. And, he's an idiot. Apparently you may qualify also.
2007-03-02 22:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by jimmyjohn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋