I keep telling her that my friend is lesbian but she doesn't believe me. What should I do?
2007-03-02 22:21:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
poopikins you'll get a slap later if you're not careful. I would sit her down and explain all about lesbianism in immense detail. Make sure to teach her about every sexual practice, using a wide range of sources and explicit diagrams and photos. If that doesn't help, make your friend undress in front of her and give her a practical demonstration. That's what I did with my grandma, it's the only way they'll learn.
2007-03-02 22:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
My advice: Please stop trying to convince her.
I am an older woman, who is also a lesbian, and I have offspring and know it can be hard to find out one of them is less then perfect. No one is perfect in any way I might add.
I have no idea what her age is so...She has her world and you and your friends have yours and she doesn't want to imagine that part of your life.
Tell your friend(s) about granny's mind set so no one get offended if she should say something to their face. Just laugh (or shrug) it off and go on with your life.
Sometimes the less said the better.
2007-03-03 07:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by dragon 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At the end of the day, if somebody wants to believe something, nothing you say or do will change their minds. Accept it, laugh about it with your friend, and love your granny for who she is.
2007-03-03 08:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by dead_elves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to let her think that way. Unless she makes a comment that offends your friend let her enjoy her thoughts. If your friend does not mind it will be alright.
2007-03-03 06:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by selena d 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grandmas are a detriment to society. Let's ban them all, shall we?
2007-03-03 06:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
unless it is affecting your friendship with her, let your grandma believe what she wants. its no use trying to insist on something she just cant understand
2007-03-03 06:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Pictsy♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The whole security, degree, worth and emotional intelligence of your self-perception as a gay man is solely based on the opinions of your grandmother?
2007-03-03 06:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by Just Ask Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
get ur to friend flirt with ur grandma ;) she'll get the picture!!!
2007-03-03 07:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's just hoping and praying, as probably is most of the rest of your family.
2007-03-03 06:26:41 · answer #9 · answered by 1000 Man Embassy 5 · 0⤊ 6⤋