i was trying to answer a question but didn't understand the question so i asked what was the question..???? she chose me as having the best answer but then under the comments she wrote : fu ck you !!!!!!!! what was that???? did i do something wrong ??? if so, please let me know what i did, ok??
she really hurt my feelings and i am sitting here trying to hold back the tears.....i just don't understand what i did to make her so vicious...... will someone help me to understand where this came from????? thankyou so very much.....oh, and her screen name is
Pomona something:
2007-03-02 21:57:46 · 4 answers · asked by sweetness #1 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sweetness:
I read Pomona's question about Oprah......
She was just complaining about Oprah. She was not really asking a question. She just wanted other people to agree with her. So when you asked her, "What was the question?" She thought you were being sarcastic, and that you didn't care about what she was saying.
She didn't know that you really didn't understand the question.
So don't feel too bad. You didn't do anything wrong. Please don't cry or feel hurt.
When people are rude or say mean things to other people, they are often very unhappy about something in their life or themselves. Rude people = unhappy people. So you should remember this. Do not take it personally. They are usually rude to many people - not just you.
OK?
I hope you feel better now. There is no reason for you to feel sad. You are a good person - otherwise you would not ask this question, or try to understand.
Also remember, the most important thing is how YOU feel inside your heart. If you know inside your heart that you are kind and do not wish to hurt anybody, then that is enough for now.
OK?
2007-03-03 04:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by sky2evan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since they don't talk to your face, they feel they can be crude. I always try to treat everyone with respect, whether in person or online.
2007-03-03 07:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Tori M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz nothing will happen to her. she duznt know you so she feels no guilt about being rude, ur not close and you cant really confront her as she can just block u.
2007-03-03 08:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by Mort 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
human nature
2007-03-03 07:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by stefan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋